"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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When chicks look sad to leave you?

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So the few girls I've actually interacted with, and been attracted to, all seem to have one similar characteristic, and I want to understand what it means.

When we part ways, they always look at me with sad puppydog eyes, what does this mean or suggest?

edit: I know this sort of question may be situational, and because of this, I added the exact situation in which this happened, here is the link (my second post in this thread) You may want to read it if you are interested in helping, to understand the context. Thank you if you can do so: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showpost.php?p=1613828&postcount=5
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That they are females... Simply as that... Either they 're happy about it or ain't happy about it, most females will have that look upon their face! :)
 

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If you're leaving them wanting more of you, it means you are doing something right.
 

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Thank you all for your posts so far. I recognize two mistakes I've been making, one in regards to this post: I didn't give you enough information.

I understand that these sorts of things are entirely situational.. So let me describe the situations, luckily, there were only 2 (2 of 2 hot girls I've been interested in and met through class, like I (may have) said in another thread, I am becoming more social, but still feel I need an excuse to talk to a female) and their circumstances were the same.

We had a generally good time, they both were behaving the same way in the interaction, same basic interaction styles, one was standing really really close to me, the other wasn't as close but still closer than normal people, asking me questions when the convo died down, mimicking my behaviours (sometimes non-verbal, sometimes verbal) and these were both women who I had a real thing for, and with both of them, we had been in groups before, and together alone before, but never left eachother while we were alone - that look happened when we left eachother for the 1st time we were alone together, for both of them.

On my part, I didn't kino in the interaction (we would maybe touch occasionally in class as we sat beside eachother, but not while standing up), and didn't ask for their number or a hug or kiss or anything as the interaction came to an end, despite wanting to. I also wasn't really "trying material" or anything, just being me, and to be honest, not doing a very good job either, from my view.

In this thread, I've seen basically the full spectrum of answers, and I'm thinking that's because each person is applying their own imagined situation onto this. I'm sorry I wasn't more specific, so with this in mind, could you guys re-evaluate your theories and post, even if it's just "yea I'm still sure of what I said" and to those of you who haven't yet, tell me what you think based on your experiences and the details of these situations?

Thank you
 
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