"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Testing for std, questions.

Snap87

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Hi. I am planning to go to a free walk-in std clinic. (1)Just wondering if that same time i go there, will they have results? or will i have to come back another time to see results. (2)when you test for an std, do they test for all stds and hiv, or just the specific std you ask for?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ER!C L!VE

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Snap87 said:
Hi. I am planning to go to a free walk-in std clinic. (1)Just wondering if that same time i go there, will they have results? or will i have to come back another time to see results. (2)when you test for an std, do they test for all stds and hiv, or just the specific std you ask for?
The 'free' clinic I went to was $20+$20 for faster HIV testing results. They'll test you for everything. If you tell the Dr. that it burns when you pee or are having a discharge, s/he'll hook you up with meds that day. Otherwise, if you tell him/her that you have no symptoms of an STD, then you'll be told to call back in 2 weeks for your results. :cheer:

I use AIMs testing now, which gives me results in 3 days. However, it costs $120....
 

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can you test at a regular doctors or not? insurance doesnt cover it?
 

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HIV, HPV & Herpes!

ER!C L!VE said:
They'll test you for everything.
Not for free.

The free or cheap (~$20) screen generally only includes HIV, gonorrhea (clap), chlamydia and syphilis.

But, that only includes ONE of the 3 main ones you gotta watch out for - the 3 H's:
HIV, HPV & Herpes.

These are scary because they are VIRUSES and thus officially INCURABLE. Not to mention, HPV & herpes are extremely common and condoms don't fully protect against them.

HPV can't be tested for in men (unless you're showing symptoms) and the herpes test costs a few benjy's.

BOTTOMLINE is - a free screening is probably going to leave out 2/3 of the STDs you need to be MOST CONCERNED about. Don't think you're fully safe unless you read exactly what all STDs you were tested for.

REMEMBER to beware of the 3 H's!
HIV, HPV & Herpes!
 

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Test for hepatitis C. This is one of the most under recognized STDs. Its uncurable, viral, and transmitable the same way as AIDs. It is also has the potential to be fatal. I am very suprised a lot of people dont test for this.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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semperfkemall said:
Test for hepatitis C. This is one of the most under recognized STDs. Its uncurable, viral, and transmitable the same way as AIDs. It is also has the potential to be fatal. I am very suprised a lot of people dont test for this.
Ah yes, forgot about this one...make that the

4 H's then:

HIV, HPV, Herpes & Hepatitis C!

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