She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
no lets not, althoug it is totally clear shes not attracted to him, but this is an observation which is evidence which should not be ignored. It points out my theory as right, and that the "looks dont matter" as wrong.Charm said:Its clear she wasnt attracted to him. Move along.
Well, this is an interesting study in psychology, selective perception and self-limiting beliefs.God_of_getting_layed said:no lets not, althoug it is totally clear shes not attracted to him, but this is an observation which is evidence which should not be ignored. It points out my theory as right, and that the "looks dont matter" as wrong.
Its evidence, shouldnt be ignored! Its crucial to this core discussion
Alright, given that your specific example is true, it also leads to the assumption that people who put a heavy emphasis on looks have a terrible time staying in a relationship. I have no idea whether the size of their unit has anything to do with it and I'm surprised that anyone could find such statistics (or bothered to look it up).wayword said:...That's why the same handful of top Hollywood "it girls" like Paris Hilton, Pamela Anderson, Lindsay Lohan, Mandy Moore, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Olsen twins, etc. all rotate through the same handful of guys:
Tommy Lee - rock star with probably ~8" rod
Wilmer Valderrama - suave-looking shytcom actor who claims to be slightly >8"
Jared Leto - pretty boy actor with allegedly big rod
Rick Solomon - wealthy heir with what appears to be a 7"+ rod
Colin Farrell - star actor with what appears to be >7" rod
Kevin Federline - good-looking guy (size unknown)
you got that right!wayword said:Everytime Deus sees an ugly guy with a decent-looking girl, he says see...I'm right! And everytime he sees an ugly guy getting rejected by a girl, he says it was due to his game, not looks.
this is accurate too, #3 means she's a gold digger. one of the oldest professions in the world.~~~~~ REALITY CHECK NOW ~~~~~
When you look at the TOP ALPHA FEMALES in American pop culture and who they consistently choose to date though, it generally boils down to a trifactor of:
1) GOOD LOOKS
2) BIG D!CK
3) FAME/STATUS
again accurate. Though, Id say colin farrell is more known for being good looking than having a big rod. I cant count how many times Ive heard women say they wanna fvck him cuz hes soo hot. and colins a slvt too, he gets so much ass..its no wonder.That's why the same handful of top Hollywood "it girls" like Paris Hilton, Pamela Anderson, Lindsay Lohan, Mandy Moore, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Olsen twins, etc. all rotate through the same handful of guys:
Tommy Lee - rock star with probably ~8" rod
Wilmer Valderrama - suave-looking shytcom actor who claims to be slightly >8"
Jared Leto - pretty boy actor with allegedly big rod
Rick Solomon - wealthy heir with what appears to be a 7"+ rod
Colin Farrell - star actor with what appears to be >7" rod
Kevin Federline - good-looking guy (size unknown)
Sorry guys, but that's the real secret to getting chicks and probably hasn't changed in 5000 years. You'll notice as each of those 3 variables increases, so does the hotness and number of their gf's. And without those 3, you will have a hard time attracting and keeping the top "it girls." But with them, you can almost do no wrong...
yep, your so right, you understand it. Although, this is stastically more common with attractive women then fug women, reason being fug often cant get attractive men, so they have to lower their standards as do fug guys; they train themselves to see past looks. I need to point this out because deus and others will take this out of context.NEWSFLASH - These girls always date good-looking guys! You never see them with a fug! I'll never say never, but certainly statistically, they date decent-looking guys the vast majority of the time!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
actually, I read a study that said that people of equal attractiveness stay together longer than people of un-equal attractiveness. so the hot girl-hot guy will stay together far longer than the hot girl-ugly guy couple will. ugly guy-ugly girl will stay together a long time etc.Francisco d'Anconia said:Alright, given that your specific example is true, it also leads to the assumption that people who put a heavy emphasis on looks have a terrible time staying in a relationship. I have no idea whether the size of their unit has anything to do with it and I'm surprised that anyone could find such statistics (or bothered to look it up).
We'll call this the "777" club.God_of_getting_layed said:well, we both see it! we are both 2 independant sources that come in agreement, which validates our observations as accurate.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
There is truth to that but it's not based solely on looks, it's based on the confidence (or comfort) that a person has when dating someone that they feel is their equal. The easiest judgement on that is looks but it also includes their social and economic levels.God_of_getting_layed said:actually, I read a study that said that people of equal attractiveness stay together longer than people of un-equal attractiveness. so the hot girl-hot guy will stay together far longer than the hot girl-ugly guy couple will. ugly guy-ugly girl will stay together a long time etc.
I'm in!wayword said:We'll call this the "777" club.
If you are:
1) A 7 or more in looks
2) Have a 7" or bigger d!ck
3) Make $70K or more a year
Damn logic getting in the fvcking way all the time... :cuss:Deus ex Pianoforte said:Careful now, Francisco...don't want to make too much sense here or anything. Don't want any looks-are-everything folks to get hurt.![]()
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
And which ones are you actually fuxxoring?Deus ex Pianoforte said:Good news for all you looks-are-everything guys demanding my pics/denouncing me as an ugly troll determined to design a new reality for myself! My co-worker just sent me a couple pics from some parties we've had. I'm the dude in the red shirt and Stones shirt with the goofy drunken expression on his face.Sorry there's no shirtless pics, but I'd be glad to hook you up with those if you keep it up with the "fat" accusations. Now if I could just get my freakin' camera to link up with my computer...
http://i140.photobucket.com/albums/r2/saynotokrypto/tedshouse.jpg
http://i140.photobucket.com/albums/r2/saynotokrypto/lannysbirthday.jpg
that's cause LOOKS DON'T MATTER...at least he is not a hypocritpimpin IS easy said:Deux i just saw your pics - you do realize that the girls in those pics with you are very ugly right? (1 of them is cute, the other 2 hideous).
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.