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    Best friend rejected me, now she is considering me?

    Well, we went on a 2nd date. Didn't went that well, I felt her resistance. But all in all we had fun. She even send me an sms after it that she really liked the surprise. During the date she even talked about going to do something else soon. Well, two days passed and I decided to talk to her...
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    Best friend rejected me, now she is considering me?

    Hey guys, (good to see you posting here TMC!) Today we went out to the movies. As soon as possible I started the holding hand, hugging etc to see how she would respond to it. (It took us a while to get there so I had time for that) All this went good.. So we arrived, bought a bottle of wine...
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    Best friend rejected me, now she is considering me?

    Thanks guys, I was posting this on another forum too and someone asked me what whas the whole process I did to get this turning in my favor. This is what I posted. Alright, after she said "let's just remain friends" I treated her bad and I didn't want to be friends any longer because I felt...
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    Best friend rejected me, now she is considering me?

    Well guess what, she made up her mind, she just spoke to me and wants to be with me. She said I should now choose what to do if I want to date the other girl or her. She said she would understand if I choose the other girl and that it's oke that I think about it before deciding. Things seems...
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    Best friend rejected me, now she is considering me?

    Thanks for the replies I will just lay low and not contact her at all until she talks to me. One thing for sure, there is only one way for me. If she wants me, OK then I might give it a shot and would take it slow with her. BUT if she comes again to the same decission I am gonna dump her...
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    LJBF, with a perplexing twist

    ignore her for a while, don't contact her, she will contact you. if she asks, tell her you are not interested in being friends. on the other hand, it could be she is still not sure about it and therefore she wants to keep seeing you. it's indeed open to interpretation.
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    LJBF, with a perplexing twist

    my translation of her sms would be: "ey, I like hanging out with you, but I don't want to commit because I think I can get better. But no worries, while I keep looking for a better guy, you can be my little puppy and I will have your balls in my purse and ring them when I feel like it."...
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    Best friend rejected me, now she is considering me?

    Hey guys, Like a month ago I posted here about what happened with this girl who rejected me. ( full story here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168838 ) She has been my best friend for a year. I started to feel more after a couple of months for her and showed interest, she...
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    Got rejected, I said NO to "LJBF" - Girl is devastated now

    Thanks everyone for the replies. ThatMysteriousGuy, Igetit!, thank you in special, your posts have been an eye-opener. I understand that I can't turn affection into attraction. It's too late for that and especially because our friendship was genuine most of the time without other...
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    Got rejected, I said NO to "LJBF" - Girl is devastated now

    I totally get your point, but I should add that I didn't develop this crush on her from the beginning. I did not saw her as a girl I would bang from the start of our friendship. I wasn't trying to act as friend or whatever to get into her panties. I wasn't even attracted to her at the beginning...
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    Got rejected, I said NO to "LJBF" - Girl is devastated now

    Hello everyone, Sorry for the long post, but I am sure it’s quite interesting to read and to see the effect it has when you say NO to a “LJBF” I met this girl a year ago, we were in the same class but never talked to each other. It all started when my girlfriend broke up with me after a...
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