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I have literally nothing to contribute to this thread, other than the fact that I think this is one of the best threads on this site. I am also in college and struggling with many of the same things. Thanks guys!

I had this too, with the procrastination and distraction. You probably have undiagnosed ADD. I was diagnosed a month ago and on medicine and my life is completely changed. You might want to look into it!

This really, REALLY helped me to read. Living in the future where everything is idealized makes me feel like crap about the present and I don't get much done. I now know what I need to do. Thank you so much, I can't express how much this helped me. This is perhaps my #1 problem in life and you...

I've been dating my girlfriend about 10 months. About 2 months ago, she started to become slightly controlling, and she has ramped it up since then, especially in the last 3-4 weeks. She is also becoming angry, and a find myself not talking much to avoid her anger, and then she gets mad at me...

Valentines day break up I recommend cooking a nice meal with her edit Sorry about the title, I thought I was making a new thread

How long have you been dating? Are you in a committed relationship?

Best post on so suave.

This is why you avoid girls who play games.

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With my current GF, I first called her with the intent of her rejecting me. I figured it would be good practice, though obviously I did try my best on the off chance it would work. She told me she had a crush on me and we started dating. Just call random girls you are casually friends with and...

I acted like it didn't bother me. So I should call? I still wanna tell her the story though; sometimes I tell her stuff like this and sometimes I don't cuz I don't want her getting jealous but in this case I think I do.

Shes not gonna call. She thinks my phone is dead and that I don't have the charger. Yeah I'll keep up the no contact though and just call her on this saturday or next monday and tell her about it then.

Ok, so I got my phone charger back this afternoon. GF doesn't know. I had dinner tonight with this hardcore religious girl, and for 1.5 hours she tried her best to convert me. I gave her an extremely tough time and asked lots of irritating questions and got her totally pissed off. It was great...

I've found that self-delusion works well for staving off depression. You have to trick yourself into thinking you are in complete or near complete control of what happens to you. Good things happen because you made them happen, and are likely to last. Bad things happen because you got unlucky...

I acted like it didn't bother me, and I haven't mentioned him, so I think I might of passed. I was kinda in a depressed mood that day because I was realizing that I don't know what to do with my life, so I could have handled it a little better. When she said "you're crying" I almost laughed and...

Well, after she called him I genuinely didn't care and didn't cry l (like she expected me to?) After her little speech I said in a comforting voice, "hey don't worry I know u'd never cheat on me" and then started talking about myself and I haven't brought up this guy since and I don't think I'm...

Weezy- Thats gold. Totally shuts her down. I don't see her again until Xmas break though. I get back like the day before her birthday, and then Christmas is like a week later. I think I'll do no contact for a week, then call her tell her I got my charger for my phone, but I have finals and such...

I dunno if I passed... she thought I was gonna cry, but instead I smiled and was cool and then I said we were going to her house, and I talked with her and her mom about life and then we made out for a bit and I left. I'm sure if I cried I failed. I wasn't stern or anything though. Did I fail?

Weezy- so should I dump her, and then if she grovels and begs take her back sometime during the Christmas break? (If she doesn't then obviously we are done) Or just cut her off completely? What should I generally say?

I've thought she was more into me than I was into her. I dunno how you tell for sure though and I guess I might be wrong. And its not like I can't pull girls at college. The first week I was here this girl practically threw herself at me and kept pursuing me for like a month. I have the whole...