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While most of the talk on this forum is about dating and banging women, I see it more as a self improvement forum. I'm going to share a simple principle that has changed my life in less than 4 days. Focus on the Essential, and Eliminate the Rest. How does this apply to women? Simple...

1. Be patient. Do nothing. The ball is her court. 2. Improve yourself. This will attract more women like her in the future. 3. She doesn't owe you anything, so stop acting like she does. 4. Learn from the experience, and become better!

Dude, don't overthink this one. If you like something about her, then tell her. It should be spur of the moment, not planned or preconceived. I tell her she is beautiful because she is. I don't care how she responds. I seek no approval, return compliment, or anything. I merely put out good...

I think your focus is WAY too much on your girl. Why not focus on yourself? See, I'm a fairly skinny guy too. and I tend to get insecure about my weight b/c it's just frustrating. So I started hitting the gym to solve my skinny problem. Now, I'm eating 2x to 3x as much food per day, and I'm a...

You're right. I've had a skinny look ever since HS. I know it hurts my confidence because everybody else puts on weight so easily. I'm what you call a Hardgainer. Recently, I've been committed to training and eating a lot more. Either way, I've got a long way to go. This journey should be fun...

I've been on SS for a few months now, and I'm beginning to work on my inner game to improve my results with women. One of my biggest problems is a constant sticking point that I reach when going in for a close. A woman will always tell me either "I have a boyfriend" or "I have a man already."...

Man, I know how you feel. I had the same obsession with this one girl, and NOTHING ever happened. You know how I beat it? I started working on myself. When 1 girl doesn't work out, most SS members say focus on the next. Sometimes the problem isn't the girls, it's with us. You gotta be happy...

LMFAO!

There was SOOO much BS in her e-mail..it's ridiculous. What took her an entire paragraph should have taken 2 sentences. And guys, some women are college professors, lawyers, columnists, etc. She may be used to writing long, lengthy compositions out of habit. I agree with Alexander and...

Agreed. The rules are different when you're in a relationship, but he still has a legitimate question. Some may agree or not with this, but I believe in feed dripping content with women just like I do as an online marketer. In other words, it's best to call once a day than 5 times per day...

ELStud, READ THE DJ BIBLE THEN THINK! I swear if you do this, you will realize how everything in that God Blessed Dating Bible is damn near 97% correct. It hit me like a ton of bricks when I read it. Heck, I even printed out the best articles and placed them in a ringed binder. This stuff is...

Quick story. I was walking back from a soccer game, and saw this HB 7 in her early 30's. We made eye contact, so I figured what do I have to lose? I walk up to her and prepare to test the apocalypse opener for the 1st time. Me: Hey, How Are You? Woman: (no response) Me: Why are you so mean...

To call someone an idiot for moving on after a flake is pretty ridiculous. Everyone is different. Intelligence is knowing who you are and not changing for anyone. When a girl flakes, there is no conflict. She sent a message loud and clear. If you were REALLY busy and had an interesting life with...

I used to allow flakes to get back into my life. Now, I delete them upon the first flake. My time is too valuable to deal with wishy,washy people. If you're not coming, then say so! How hard is it to pick up the phone and cancel/reschedule? This is the digital world. I've talked to indian...

Quick story, I was at a club with a friend and I approached two HBs. My friend got the HB9, and I got the HB8's phone number. At the end of the night, I even gave her my card. So I call her and she doesn't pick up...You know what I???? NOT A DAMN THING! I deleted her number and got new 3 numbers...

So tonight's Friday, and I'm trying something VERY different than usual. I'm going out and will remain completely SOBER from drinking for a whole night. This will allow me to have fun w/o the drinks, but most importantly become OBSERVANT. There are so many interesting interactions...

I like #4 a lot. So true. Become the best man you can be. That puts you in a win-win type situation with the females. You get to pick and choose who should win you b/c you're on top of your game. And even if a female doesn't feel you, so what! You're still on top of your game, and have lost...

Newsflash: His audience is by a large majority female. See the stats for yourself. http://www.quantcast.com/drphil.com I'm not surprised. Women always find male conduits to spread their lies and nonsense. Take this show with a grain of salt. Enjoy your Friday night!

I agree with Reset. This place is really awesome....Everyone has a story, and that's what makes SS so damn interesting. As for your loneliness, I would suggest that you quit the negative thinking. "You are what you think. 2. Just follow your passions. I used to think I had trouble making...

Sorry man, but you were put on this earth to procreate. If you aint, then well you're living a lie. I didn't say you were gonna commit suicide or anything. But you can def stop being a babysitter. Maybe that's your problem. Just trying to help.