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    Nice girl, but another fade away?

    And update: nothing, at all from her. Weird, i would've preferred she at least let know as I planned on it. Just an outright biatch..women are getting worse and worse, at least around here, I even had a girl friend of ours say that
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    Nice girl, but another fade away?

    I guess shes just turning out to be a flake-weirdo, fairly typical of the girls around here. I did the see you tomorrow thing, with 0 response and we were going to get early tomorrow to catch a game so it looks like it is off.
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    Nice girl, but another fade away?

    All true and good advice. As for her coming back,shes a hard one to read, a conservative Asian girl. Also we were outside all day long in 90 degree weather and both had admittedly felt gross at that point but I guess I could've offered a shower..:) She text me tonight asking me about the movie...
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    Nice girl, but another fade away?

    Very true, my worst habit and I'm not contacting her. I just find it amazingly odd and typical here (SCal) for this kind of stuff. No consistency, she was so much more forward, flirty and nice, then she has a great time and clearly likes me but dials back to to not giving a s#$? Most of the...
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    Nice girl, but another fade away?

    Met this girl out one night, she lives up north about an hour and a half away. She was out for a friends bday visiting, not the bar type and doesn't drink so we were actually both sober. Hit it off with her for about half and hour and she had to take her friends back so I got her number. She was...
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    Drop it or?

    It's a good point too I guess especially when the chick livest out of town. It's much harder to follow through with that for "next time".
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    Drop it or?

    I've been focusing on shedding my passive ways and it's been successful. I met a girl a while back at club, I noticed her eyeing me so i went straight up to her and started talking to her. She pulled me away and dragged me outside, had a lot to talk about she was visiting (lives about an 1.5...
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    Ignore or bring it up...

    Yes, had sex. I don't think shes distancing herself because she wants me to be sure that she's not my gf but that she thinks incorrectly I was showing disinterest. The same Sunday we met up and that odd scenario presented itself she was texting me things such as "Wondering when I get to see you...
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    Ignore or bring it up...

    Thanks! All good points. She clearly feels I am the one who was in the wrong and has put up defense now, seems like I'd have to chase the **** out of her. Not going to bother, disappointing as she seemed cool up until then and I just hooked up with her and she was much better than expected. What...
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    Ignore or bring it up...

    So I started seeing this girl a few weeks back. I actually like her, she's a bit older yet looks much younger, which is great. I just hooked up with her last weds for the first time. Sunday she was with her friends and I was out with mine, we were texing, I invited her to come to where I was. I...
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    Want to kick myself lol..

    Yeah, I struggle with that. At the moment its hard for me to do that especially since the girl I was with was very nice and really likes me. I usually need some motive to be a jerk..
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    Want to kick myself lol..

    So Sat night I was out with this cute girl, not too into but shes a real nice girl. I didn't even expect to be, she asked to meet for a few drinks around 7, I expected to go my own way after. So she tags along with me to go out to meet my friend. I felt like it would be rude to say she can't...
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    Still cant seem to take enough chances..

    Yeah, I definitely need to think less if anything. Oddly though I am at my worst when I know I've got some interest from the girl, not sure if it's pressure or what but I always end up just going passive.
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    Still cant seem to take enough chances..

    I've been on a fairly decent, run, but as usual, mostly with girls I've done next to nothing to get. I am still terrible at hitting on a girl I see that I like, usually only go for the ones i know are a sure bet (come up to me etc). I was at locak supermarket a few weeks ago, and i saw this...
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    Friend's GF is setting me up with her friend...

    I wish I did do that, she canceled yet again. She works in finance, I know it wasn't an excuse because my friend was there working with her as well all night long. However, again, no other time suggested. Odd girl, she clearly did not like something about that night at our friend's bday party...
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    Friend's GF is setting me up with her friend...

    So, we are meeting tonight. Though now it feels "off" since she iced communication AND she was insistent on one place only (where we had my friend's bday) and concerned about there being a crowd (as in she wants busy). Quite a difference from her complaining that these places are too loud and...
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    Anyone game Asian Chicks?

    Depends where in China, there is not an abundance of younger single and attractive Chinese women. They get married young usually, and I find the Chinese girls there generally less attractive than here. Though places like Shanghai and HK are pretty good. And a HUGE percentage of the girls you see...
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    Anyone game Asian Chicks?

    It all depends on what you want. Do you want a westernized girl? Or complete FOB? I find Asian girls to be a nightmare, with that said its 90% of what I date. Even if they are born here they tend to be more relationship minded on average and seem to move fast. Especially since many have parents...
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    Friend's GF is setting me up with her friend...

    We all went to the party together, we were talking about if leading up to it. She was looking forward to talking to me, when there she got drunk, groped the hell out of me and made out with me blatantly off and on for half the night. It's since then that she has done a 180, she sent another text...
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    Friend's GF is setting me up with her friend...

    Yep, thats what I thought, not a good sign. Very, very odd, right up until AFTER that Friday night she was overly interested. Just going to leave it alone..
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