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What Dr. Suave said. Want to feel better? I've been in this exact type of situation and it wasn't on no second date. It was more a 10th or 11th date, with all sorts of sex and sleepovers, a Christmas party, a night with friends, etc, in between. Then a couple months after she blew me off I saw...

What do you do for a living? I wish I could get a job that worked late. I've been working 8-4 and waking around 6:15am for the last 11 years. Always been a drag.

My thoughts are it's more than likely there is another guy or even multiple guys she's involved with in some way shape or form. They are not anything exclusive as she was out in the open on the dating app but she thought she'd test the waters for a minute and found it to be too stressful and not...

Got a number from a relatively attractive 41 year old off of a dating app about a week ago. We texted just a very little bit one day at first but she was on a trip so we didn't make plans then and there. I reached last night (a few days later) when I knew she'd be back and right away asked what...

early to mid 30's. I feel like the gym is basically a necessity for me now.

@Lookatu So how do you suggest I handle things with this woman? Even if she were to tell me she's been in an LTR recently, it still wouldn't change several of the red flags I've already experienced with her. (i.e. bad sex, unable to fully explain what in fact is going on with her likely move in...

Agreed. I should have dug a little deeper at this point. Though I have not put her on the spot with your question yet, I did ask if she ever lived with a guy to which she said no. That alone I found a little odd for an attractive 40 year old bc that basically means she's likely never dated...

Can't really disagree. I knew it was bad news when we finally got down to it all. And lord knows I'm not going to, at my age, 36, to talk to a 40 year old, about how to give a better BJ.

I dread the days I may have to help plan a wedding, even if small. Figuring out every last detail and paying an arm and a leg to be the center of attention for an event that half the people you invite probably couldn't care less. Then for all you know you or your wife will wake up with the flu...

Lord knows I've been there before. Fortunately never went the distance with any of them. That being said none of them were ever as distant as this chick is with me. With this chick ironcally she admitted to me that she's "very stubborn" and "can be bossy sometimes"

You know it's just sad bc at this stage of my life, the prejudging game when it comes to dating is something I'm trying to avoid, yet somehow it does always come back to bite me in the a$$. 40 yrs old, hot, smart, successful, etc. I'd be lying if I didn't think that's interesting that she's...

@Hank Moody Well my implication there was of course I don't want to waste my time in the event that she really isn't looking for anything long term or plans to just have a summer fling with me. Ultimately I would like to progress. But of course, as you read in my post I'm sure, she has basically...

You're implying that I completely f-cked up with my game with this woman which I don't see being the case outside of initiating with her again with my random text when she's shown me hardly any initiation from her end. Also, maybe I shouldn't have made such a convo out of her moving initially...

Instead of being cryptic would you mind just sharing what you mean? I don't think I've been failing many tests at all to be completely honest.

So I guess I shouldn't ask her where she thinks a guy (i.e. me) could fit into a relationship if she ends up (in her words "likely") moving in the Fall like she said she is? :lol:

You are very right. In my case it was extra difficult though imo when I got a chick that wants me staying over her place, is talking about future plans with me, tells me in a text that she wishes I was there to "keep her warm", and then I push forward a little bit and show her more of my "cards"...

Well I'll go out on a limb saying the line isn't implying to treat a girl like sh-t or play the game so hard that you're only talking to her once every 2 weeks 2 months into dating. But instead going about it in such a way that you're still casting even the slightest bit of doubt in her head at...

just to respond to this... I won't disagree with your above statement completely, as yes, after a few weeks and few dates of dating I'll admit I was starting to like this woman, but I will also say that in a normal world in normal progression and where I come from I've learned that this is also...

Agreed on both counts. Thanks for the advice.

Met her online well over a month ago now. Very different/reserved type of chick. Got weird about removing her mask for a kiss at the end of what was a very nice 3rd date and said "Next time!". Not big into sex talk. Only made out at the end of the 4TH DATE (I know). 5th date I slept over her...