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Life’s a long time. D9930380 I usually don’t respond to folks here, since most of the responses are too quarrelsome, but you seem pretty quiet, so I’ll answer. For one thing, you need to know that I’ve already thought most of the thoughts presented on this site. They are...

A creepy old guy walks into a college bar... Let me suggest that whether or not your creepy would depend on the reaction you sense from the women you try to talk to. Young people are much less polite than older ones. If a girl thinks you’re creepy, she will let you know. I’m almost 63, and...

Psychopolitics. If you really want to begin a serious study as to “Why is it so hard now…?” you could start by reading this site: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/7006/psychopolitics.html

Jobs, careers and money. I have all kinds of education. It's almost useless. Formal education either leads you into a job, or at the very best, you can be self employed. Dentists, lawyers etc. fall into this last catagory. If they don't go to work one day, they don't make any money. Owning...

Age and reason... IMHO you can disregard the idea that a woman will only go for a man who is significantly older just because he makes six times the money of someone else who is younger. This may be more obvious when the money stacks up like that, but what is really important for a woman is...

Age, young women and so on... I think I'm the oldest man on this website. I'm 62. I've been investigating the idea of getting married. For me, just getting laid isn't of any interest at all. The women I've been looking at are between the ages of 28 and 32. From reading this website, my...

The final effects of no more races. I’ve always thought that Jane Fonda was really beautiful. I haven’t seen her for awhile, but I will always remember “Barbarella” and the way she looked in that film. But if I had the chance to re-design her, I think it would be with a loop at the back of...

Racially Mixed Children To begin with, children are genetic. That is, if your parents didn’t have any children, the probability is that you won’t either. (That’s a joke.) This subject can be very difficult or very easy. The easy answer is found in any knowledge of any race in any animal...

Interracial Marriage Interracial marriage. I’d like to complement the better part of the people who have responded to this post. Usually, you get panic reactions to these kinds of topics. But if you look back through the posts, you will see that gradually, the messages get more intelligent...

Interracial sex The thing about people who don’t know too much is that they can be swayed by repetition. All you have to do is to set the stage in a certain fashion, have the right music, and then state and restate things over and over again in different ways, and most people will eventually...

Other people’s opinions. Well, here goes. This is an important question, but the answers I’m gonna give won’t be too popular, since the MTV mentality pretty much prevails. If you were in my set of friends, there never would be any comments on the sexual desirability of a woman who was not...

The measure of a man. Hello Jerry. I don't respond much on this site, but you've asked a serious question and given the impression that you're genuine, so here goes: For one thing, "being happy" as a life goal is juvenile. So many people think that life's goal lies in that direction...

Confidence, confidence, and red, red roses. I'm really glad someone brought this subject up. I don't know whether or not my comments will help anyone, but I am a degreed engineer, tri-lingual, and have been in 15 countries and lived outside the US for five years. I'm licensed by Primerica to...

"But if you don't date a lot and just gravitate towards what feels good emotionally (and in your crotch), you will end up with a bad or flakey person." I think so too. Getting married based on "what feels good" is like driving your car using only your sense of sound.

Settling down... This is a great question. And it does bring in all kinds of basic concepts. For one thing, you need to understand people when they speak on this subject. For example, if someone states outright that they will never marry, then you have to factor this in when they are telling...

...let no man put asunder...2 Hi. It's too bad that I didn't know how to use this site very well when I first posted. I still don’t really understand the mechanisms, but I usually post a lot faster when someone writes to me. I’ll work on it. Anyway: I do admit that my post was not...

…let no man put asunder… …let no man put asunder… I’m 62. My parents got a divorce when I was about 4 and my sister was 2. Divorce should be as illegal as murder. Marital crimes such as infidelity should be punished by some sort of flogging. When divorce was virtually illegal, as it was...