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    Girl acting odd out of the blue

    I started a job a month or so ago. One of the girls there asked me if I had a class at a local university, I said that I did and she goes on to tell me that she noticed me in there. Friendly chatter at work for a week or so then she creeps me on facebook. She adds me and sends me a message which...
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    College: Odd sitting to a girl a month into the semester?

    I've briefly met a few girls in a couple different classes. I've met them by talking to them after class and general fluff introduction conversations. I notice a lot of them tend to sit alone so I figured since I broke the ice with them it's ok to sit down and start shooting the breeze. For...
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    Going to ask a girl out this week, need a quick view on rapport/date idea

    One thing I'm terrible at is building rapport/rushing into things. I often shoot way too early for the number/date and it leads to a pretty high flake rate. I hope to improve that and going to try by starting this week. Noticed a cute girl in my math class a week or so ago. Kinda psyched...
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    Escaping the friend zone ever possible?

    I was talking to a bud of mine at work today and he asked me my opinion on something I really have no idea with. He asked me what I think is the best method of escaping the friend zone. The only thing I could tell him is definately back away from her for a while, improve yourself, and put...
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    Girl who's father abused her, any shot or forget it?

    Hey everyone, Been seeing this girl for roughly 3 months. Things started out well until about 2-3 weeks ago and I asked her if we were going out or what the deal was. She said she never really thought about it and that was the end of that conversation. After that conversation things started...
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    Anyone else find it impossible to use condoms?

    hey, Been having some troubles in the sex department. Been with this girl for over a month and we finally got around to sex as she told me she was a virgin. She's really inexperienced which is a turn off as you almost gotta position her whole body and it kills the mood. She isn't on the...
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    Dealing with inexperienced/virgin girls

    I got out of a long term relationship last year and after some one night stands and having some fun I decided it was time to try dating again. Started talking with this girl on facebook who is the younger sister of a friend that was in my grade. She's 19 and I'm 21. Anywho, we went to a show...
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    boost sucess rate via facebook

    Ive been using facebook to try to set up dates with girls in different social circles that ive met at parties who've added me and past highschool girls. Im having mixed results which tells me im not doing something optimally or just running at par. for instance past girl from highschool is...
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    girl has plans, quick play question

    had 1st date with girl went well, she even texted me after saying she had a blast. I said we should do it again soon. She insta replies to come hang out with her, i told her i had plans but id get a hold of her. Few days later i see if she wants to go see a movie. She reminsds me she has to...
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    is this a sign of a std?

    i was with a girl the other night, from the sounds of it shes been around a bit. She made a joke about getting something from her so i stopped and asked her if she was clean. She said yeah and was joking because she has this chronic bladder pain and has been seeing doctors for it. She said...
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    Bombed on first meetup - advice?

    Met up with girl I sort of knew from highschool of facebook. exchanged numbers. From what I know she's inexperienced and has only been with one guy. 1st night to do something didn't go through but she asked if I wanted to do something else. I told her I didn't work the next morning so she...
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    Has anyone here purchased Doc Love's "The System"?

    I'm reading his old column from Askmen.com. I really enjoy the mans style, as he focuses more on keeping and improving attraction instead of racking up one night stands with gimmicks. I'm actually thinking about dropping the $100 on his system and not pirating it based on the advice he's...
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    Asking out a coworker

    What is your guys' view on dating coworkers? Seems like it'd make for an odd work environment around them if they decline or things go south. I'm probably not going to be at the job for too long so the awkwardness most likely won't matter if she shoots me down.
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    Approaching a grocery store checkout girl

    Saw this girl I remember seeing from highschool working at a local grocery store. I think she was a grade below me, and we didn't know each other at all back in school. I went through the other day and had some small chit-chat with her. It was mainly about her brother as I've been talking to...
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    Girl seems to runaway at first sense of connection

    Hey guys, been trying to get with this girl for about week now. She will agree to dates but then act weird around the time of the date or come up with some excuse but she keeps setting up future times. Few of my buds tried courting her in the past and she does the same thing with them...
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    Keeping a girls interest up; be a while before we hang out

    Hey guys, I got this girls number from my hometown via facebook with the intent of seeing her when I got back to my hometown. I messaged her the day before I left to go home, and she got back to me about 3 days later giving me her number and to give her a call sometime. Since I was heading...
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    Been failing constantly/getting tired of the effort required

    I used to post here quite a bit. I figured I had a pretty good grasp of what to do and how to do it so I slowly quit posting. I'd occasionally pop in to ask a question or perhaps drop a line of advice but the forum has definately changed over time. I'll say that I've read Pook's material...
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    Reconnecting with old HS acquaintance, best approach?

    Made some small chat with this girl the other night via facebook walls. She's become very attractive compared to highschool and I'd like to set up a date/meet up with her. She goes to school about a hour away so distance wouldn't be an issue but I'm curious what's the best way to go about this...
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    GF of 2 years goes to Halloween party w/o mentioning/inviting me; sign of trouble?

    Hey folks, long time no post. Relationship is good but today I sent my GF a text to see what she's up to tonight. She tells me that she is going to hang out with a friend of hers that we know from highschool. I shoot her another text asking if she wants to come over after hanging out. A...
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    got # at rock festival, my phone game sucks

    Hey all, Met some good looking girls this weekend out of town at a rock festival. I didn't get many numbers as I really had no ambition to, a lot of the girls there were not classy to say the least and I'm not looking to bag hundreds of women. I did get a number from a cute brunette who...
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