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I appreciate everyones comments as they will all lead me to better development. This is all greatly appreciated!! Thanks !!

Your absolutely correct about her making herself feel better through me. There is a name for people like this: psychic vampires. Manipulative people who suck the emotions and life from you. I won't give her the time of day and see how that goes. Knowing her she might use my daughter against me...

Ignoring her has definately been what I have been doing to her. Your right I shouldn't have said those words to her. It was either that at the time or physically lashing out. I told her those words when he (my ex-friend) was in her bedroom hiding out.:cuss:

These two points hit it on the nose for me. Thanks for putting it into words. I believe this pent up guilt of hers is going to eat her up as well as their relationship. Too bad there isn't open season on humans once a year.:trouble:

Around 4 months ago, my fiance' left me. She said she didn't want to be in a relationship anymore. Come to find out about a month ago she was sleeping with my friend. I played is cool by saying that I was happy for them and I also told her that they both lost a good friend, me. I've never...

She wants space to live more independent and to have her own bills and responsibilities. She really needs to clear her head. I'm thinking she needs a wake-up call. She is 27 and hasn't had much time to live on her own. What I'm hoping to see is for her to have her independence and possibly later...

My fiance' is moving out in a week. The reason, to keep it short, is because she needs space, as do I. What is even more f****d up, is we still love each other. Is it crazy to think that we could be more compatibale when we live in seperate places? In order for any chance at all to save this...

She is 27....I'm 26... this feedback is great! Many strong points of interest. It is nice to hear feedback even if it isn't something you want to hear. Kind of constructive criticism. She is officially moving out in a week. I believe I have been doing good, not showing emotion with her. The...

The thing is I think she needs to get out more. Since we had our child we have been unable to enjoy time out together. I've never been violent. If anything I might have been just too damn nice. It seems the best thing to do is wait it out. It almost seems this is happening because we never see...

My fiance has decided that she needs to be more independent, and is breaking our relationship off. She says she doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore and that it isn't my fault. She said that it isn't me, it is her. Her intentions are getting her own place and now I am on the back burner...

I understand that letting her go is the most important thing to do. Is there anything I could explain in a letter to her, just to let her know she is dong the right thing and that I am happy for her, or would that be just a dumb thing to do?? Of course I'm not happy with her that she is doing...

fiance leaving I am 26 and she is 27. She went to school and got a degree in graphic design. She is currently working in a restaurant. FYI: she has a lot of clinical depression issues, and I honestly belive she is not interested in being in a relationship with anyone else right now. But again...

My fiance has decided that she needs to be more independent, and is breaking our relationship off. She says she doesn't want to be in a relationship anymore and that it isn't my fault. She said that it isn't me, it is her. Her intentions are getting her own place and now I am on the back burner...