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I am one week away from getting married and this has prompted me to return to the forum after staying away from it for several years. All my friends...many of whom are married...seem to be telling me that getting married is tantamount to suicide. They make it seem as if I'm about to ruin my...

Too much of a good thing is usually a bad thing. I’ve noticed that this rule holds true with this website. There is a definite progression. In the beginning, a guy comes here broken hearted and looking for answers and a place to vent. He finds many of the answers in the DJ Bible and finds a...

I've been thinking about how easy it is to know just what to do and how hard it is to actually do it. I find myself constantly slipping back into chump mode and it makes me angry to think of how much I've lost in the process. Even after many painful experiences that I know can be attributed to...

At the expense of my own ego I would like to share a story to hammer home the point of always being a challenge. This has all been heard before but maybe it will help someone new. My most recent GF, who dumped me last month, was my first attempt at being a DJ. In the beginning, I played...

Here comes the old familiar sting of loss. I have failed again. A few days ago I was dumped. She might have been the one whom I could have stayed with forever, but she walked away and left me with a void. She tried to break it to me easy. Her explanation was that she had a "feeling" or an...

After being dumped this weekend, I had the intense feeling that sometimes it doesn't matter how well you play the game. Sometimes it's just not the right relationship for the other person. Then, I started having doubts again about whether or not I had played the game long enough. This girl...

Last night, a girl whom I care for very deeply, ended our 3 month relationship. She told me that while she cared about me very much and thought that I was an amazing guy, she just knew that I wasn't "the one". She couldn't explain how she knew. I guess it was just an instinct or a feeling. I...