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Okay, I've posted about this a few times here. Each time its been in the context of a circumstance but this time I'm just going to put it as simply as I possibly can. I'd really like some replies/advice because i feel directionless with it right now. I have trouble with Kino. Not all...

I recently ended up in a situation that aggrivated me. I'd classify myself as a recovering AFC, because im friendly and can attract women, and get their numbers but i'm still having trouble closing with anything more than a number. Anyway I met this girl at a LAN party of all places, and...

Long story short, I just had a not-so-fun breakup with my girlfriend. I'm not worried about getting her back or why this happened right now. The only thing that's really bothering me is a little case of one-itis. She was one of the few girls ive met that I really connected to and actually...

I slept with my new girl for the first time last week. It had been a while since the last girl I slept with, and due to a number of factors, my endurance was...well...crap. The condom was a little too tight, i was really ****in' horny, etc. Whatever the reasons, I didn't feel like I gave her...

I dont like to steal girls from their guys. Its wrong. So when I met this girl I didn't even try to pull her at all. We hit it off so well though, that it was hard NOT to. anyway. over the course of the last 4 days we've spent a bunch of time together. She's stayed the night, i've stayed...

This girl and I get along really well, we really jive, and when I was talking to her on AIM the other night I was feeling particularly michevious. Background: She has a nasty habit of slapping me for things which i've made clear i'm NOT okay with, I just got a really nice movie theatre type...

I have a friend of mine who is by all means the epitome of an alpha male and a true DJ. We hang out fairly often, especially at social gatherings (ie parties). We also sing in the same a cappella group. This is a problem because although he's a lot of fun to be with, there's no doubt...

Taking things to the next level - from interest to bedroom OK, well I'm at the point where I feel comfortable just chatting with random girls. I'm known around my campus as very sociable, likable person, so its not uncommon for me to just strike up conversation with anyone I damn well please...

I'm a point right now where I've come a long way. I'm not where I want to be yet, and i'm not seeing that point in the near future. I need a break. I no longer have the energy to persue women. The last time I felt like this, it was 2 years ago, my freshman year, and I ended up meeting my...

I'm still in my learning stage, but I'm trying new attitudes and things and learning what works. I heard the words that every don juan wants to hear last night "Hey! Please like me! Talk to me!" This girl was cute too. I must have played my cards right. I think the moment that I...

Ive done a lot of thinking and observing lately. I've discovered mistakes i've made, and things i've done right, but now i have questions in great supply :) a) when you're being a bit of a **** and funny as hell, so basically C+F, and a girl says "I reaallly...just dont know what to make of...

This is a question I've had. It ties a lot into things like reframing and limiting beliefs. Is there a man who cannot be a DJ? I worry during my low times that I am such a man. Most of the time, I do not worry but there are times I do. Barring major freakish things, is there anyone...

What an awful question to ask, but I figure that i might as well. I'm around 6'2" 260 right now, and steadily losing weight. I've been doing a lot of exercises to sculpt my arms since my legs are in pretty good shape already (used to play soccer and fence), and my gut has been receeding...

Well I hardly feel i'm qualified to be posting a tip, but this worked well for me, and I thought perhaps I could share. I've been out of a real relationship for over a year now, and aside from some hookups here and there, i've been single. Anyway, the other night, a girl I'd been seeing...

My main problem is getting Kino started. I'm great with my words; i kept a lengthy IM conversation sexually charged no problem last night, and in real life I'm still pretty good too. I just cant get the Kino working. I think its got to do with fear and such. I never feel that Kino is...