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  1. GhostApe

    On Buzzfeed - Here Are The Reasons You Need To Add Pegging To Your Relationship

    It's not my cup of tea, but everyone with a brain knows how the prostate works - and, much of the time, when women are offering it, it's because they want you to feel good. (And no, you don't "have to put something up your butt;" it can be stimulated externally by massaging the perineum, or you...
  2. GhostApe

    Are Male Friends Worth It?

    Sounds like you just are using lousy people as an example. It's optimal - I'd argue necessary, in fact - to have a strong (even if small) circle of men you can trust. Nothing beats that kind of fraternity. Women cheat, women leave you - hypergamy and such - while solid friends won't. This...
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    What the blackpill gets wrong. Hypergamy isnt as bad as we think.

    Agreed. Male thirst is what drives the issue, to begin with. Sperm is cheaper than egg, and there's little that's going to change that. This even happens in real life, when men 'date down' because it's comparatively less hassle and effort to pick up women who are less attractive - to say...
  4. GhostApe

    How to get my gf to do anal

    Recently 'deflowered' an anal virgin. One of many anal-agnostic (and anti-anal) women - and she was a hard case. Literally went from "NO BUTT STUFF" to "stick it in nowwww." With a few very exceptional exceptions, most women aren't thrilled with the idea of ass-play, at first brush. Chalk it...
  5. GhostApe

    where are all the women who are not mentally ill?

    Agreed. There are obviously going to be bad apples, but most women, even the blushing, tattooless, low-notch-count sun-dress and straw hat housewives who want to raise your five kids and eschew feminism, are a little messed up. This is life, everyone takes their knocks and sometimes has a little...
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    where are all the women who are not mentally ill?

    I didn't watch the entirety, nor will I. I don't want to give myself an excuse not to go out and find and meeting nicer sane women by seeing evidence of crappy ones. Agreed. Women like that great. Right, but where do you draw categorical knowledge of this happening from?
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    Are videogames a unhealthy habit?

    No; they take up so little of my day, that when I stopped doing them I just found something else to take up the time - TV, social media, ETC. Like most fun things that don't really get you anywhere (video games, porn, drinking, weed, etc) consume in moderation if you're worried they're hurting...
  8. GhostApe

    Touching on OLD again

    It can work - and in my experience it has, many times - but you're going to tend to end up with a lower batting average unless you put a lot of effort into your profile (photos, bio, etc). Women may not be able to as cruelly reject you online as they can in person, but it's more effort...
  9. GhostApe

    Are Wingwomen a thing of the past?

    Social proof never gets old. You don't necessarily need a friend in tow. Getting women in any context to gas you up to others is a good thing - which is easy to do if you're worthy of being gassed up to others. Focus on being an interesting, attractive guy, and less on how you can convince women...
  10. GhostApe

    Female Personality Types

    Three extremely negative categorizations. This says more about your dim, canted view of women than it does about the women you're trying to describe.
  11. GhostApe

    What's happening to me?

    I find that very hard to believe. "Why?" Here's why: This is not what people who are 'detached' say. You're extremely attached to the outcomes of your actions. There's nothing unusual or wrong about that - only pretending you're not. This is Literally what every dude says to deflect and...
  12. GhostApe

    When was the last time you closed a girl?

    About three weeks ago. A wing-woman and I met another woman on an online app, had a menage-a-trois. I'm taking credit because as expected of me as a man, I took all the initiative to plan the whole thing out and set up a time, place and make it happen. Being in an an open LTR, I suppose the sky...
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    where are all the women who are not mentally ill?

    They're not all like that - and even in the case of the ones who are mentally ill, they're just easier to take advantage of when they're vulnerable ;) (NOT SERIOUS). But in the spirit of genuineness, there are plenty of nice women. The presence of a lot of broken ones like the nutcase in the...
  14. GhostApe

    Dating Viability for Men in their 40s

    Agreed - I'm in my thirties and I'm filtered out by most of the twentysomething chicks in my area, because it's a college town and they want "Chad." In-person is doubly good because it shows you have social skills, calibration, confidence and have nothing to lose by approaching, as opposed to...
  15. GhostApe

    Are Male Friends Worth It?

    Sounds to me like you're rolling with a ****ty crowd and generalizing. That's a lot of unnecessary words, but yes, male fraternity is important. Generally, female friends aren't going to have your back, and it takes one petty argument to realize that. If you're not exaggerating or projecting...
  16. GhostApe

    How many chicks have you slept with?

    I think I'm just at or past 30 now. Late bloomer, serious anxiety issues, and have dealt with serious dry-spells in the past decade of my life. Indifferent, really. I don't have much time to get out and sarge anymore, so when I do pick up, it's usually online game, or a matter of convenience...
  17. GhostApe

    Can't put my finger on it but Canadian women are the worst of the Anglosphere.

    Women from Toronto are insufferable. They're a margin better from Montreal. I attribute that to the gender ratio.
  18. GhostApe

    Motivation and Getting Older

    No matter how old you get, you're gonna look better staying fit. Even in your sixties, you're going to have better luck charming women by being a fit, charming sharply-dressed sixty-something. No, you're not a boy-faced 25 year old anymore, but hopefully you've got more than your looks working...
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