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This is my conclusion too these days. It's rather depressing. Things doesn't become the way you want or plan, you just have to take whatever you can get. At least not for me. I think man walks in some kind of "dead" state, compared to the euphoric and transient, that is women.

I agree that no p and nofap (including edging) is imperative for the man. I find nofap easy and no p somewhat: I use it (though rarely) as a coping mechanism against sadness/depression. It injects some adrenaline/dopamine/etc. Working out works too, but my body can't sustain working out everyday.

It is said that guys have oneitis while girls are alpha widows (Tomassi). However, I believe (some) men can be alpha widows. It's a reversed dynamic hence. Though I think it's a state that can be cured in men, was with me, I don't know about women. Prime example of this is Daniel Craig's Bond...

Poison, Alice Cooper

Well, just because some lines were posted doesn't necessarily imply I use them is some mechanical manner, as the guy you describe. I do reflect over what I say, and I think there are better and worse such, and simply listing examples works great for reflection, rather than than generic, vague...

Yes, it's a small power trip. The control transfers well to girls. A lady friend of mine said "you guys are controlled by your d1cks, you really are." Nofap is about being bigger than your d1ck. And that skill you can transfer to girls. Wait her out, tease her, say no, etc. Applies both in and...

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Same here, 35 days or so nofap. Was a struggle before that streak. I got help with it though. It's one of those fundaments of a man, really. Here's how it works: we internalise who we love. Such as the perfect girls in porn. That's why porn leads to ED and similar. I have the luxury/sadness...

Yes and no. Porn is after all people having sex, although maybe not in realistic manners, that is the traditional saying. (However, I and many here approximate it well, and there are many kinds of porn.)

That's the spirit. I was almost gullied into the idea that being dysfunctional/having the color brown (as in T-shirt) is bad for game. Drink, smoke, be ill, be a psychopath/narcissist/etc. Not some "perfect" bs.

In my no PM quest quitting porn was comparatively easy. However, in fact, today I watched some, just to not forget what I'm missing out on in real life. While I restrained myself from arousal and M, it did give me anxiety, pain and sorrow, due to seeing what I'm missing out in real life.

What do you say instead? Feel free to give examples.

Let’s share our best lines for OLD/chatting that are polarising, masculine, confident and c0cky & funny. Here’s are some: You tryna friend-zone me already? I’m in charge of you now Are you ready? You got a dorky nose, but you’re cute in it What's your favourite place to be kissed?

I've gotten better at text game, but it's still hard. For a teen-to-teen they are very similar, but if you're dealing with girls from different ages and cultures, it's hard to read/guess them based om a "hi" and a profile picture or so. But maybe that's a poor excuse: it's possible to have great...

You seem to have a large inflow. Where do you source your girls? OLD? Cold approach? I have a very low intake to my pipeline.

I find that part challenging, how to be C&F, upbeat, charming and all that. I often attempt it, but it is often received negatively. My problem is that I don't have the energy for it, or the mood, am rather resigned. Let me know your tips for having a feel for what is suitable and what that is...

Start somewhere.

I was thinking of nuts. They have a hard shell, but the kernel should be invulnerable, hard and reliable too.

I’ve since youth had the problem of exerting myself to burnout-ish states. That state follows some well-documented pattern of first restlessness and stress, followed by sincere tiredness (and hence restitution possible), if done properly. The problem is this is a no go. I can’t have this jerky...

I agree. I don't get any form of validation generally and I walk around with a constant sadness. One good date, such as my Saturday, by a girl that actually appreciate you, and one feels like a human being. And if you're functioning, as opposed to battling some kind of depression, one has...