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Thanks guys for the feedback, it was really appreciated. Her mother is scheduled for surgery next week and she's flying out for that and will be back in a week. After speaking with her it seems her family have talked and she might not be uprooting her life to move back with her family (but...

Hello All, I need some advise here's my situation: 1. I'm 34 and in a 6 mth relationship with a 29 yr old. (been living together for a few months) 2. Her mother (who lives in another state) has been diagnosed with cancer and will be headed in for surgery and chemo really soon. 3. The...

Hello, I've been focused since the start of the new year to date as many women as I can while I'm playing the field. Right now I'm averaging 2-3 dates a week with different women. My challenge has been with the 8-9 women I'm dating I have a hard time remembering everything we've talked about...

Hello all, Here is my situation looking for some suggestions - 1. Met a 24 yr old office intern that's leaving the company in a week. We've kept things casual but have seemed to hit it off. (She baked a pie for my parents anniversary). 2. We've met up once outside of the office for...

My point of view is the benefits of being a successful in shape man in his early 30s does not translate well in gaming young girls online. If you want to game girls attractive 20-24 you have to do it in person where you can 'intimidate' them a little with your experience, success, etc. it's...

Thanks man, you have an interesting perspective and I'm glad you took the time to share you thoughts...appreciate it. My philosophy is to 'play to my strengths', that I naturally have. (although I feel I could do a better job at this) For me the first thing women or anyone for that matter...

Niche Dating....Hey I'm willing to give it a shot I joined a tennis club but unfortunately didn't meet any women there. I am normally meeting women out at events or through online. I've been trying to get involved more in my community and setting up a beach volleyball event at my church, so...

Great post backbreaker I've been a little down lately in a dating slump (not meeting women that I'm really interested in) but I keep telling myself it's a numbers game. I'm 32, no kids never married no debt no baggage 6'5 220lbs, in good shape make close to six figures/year I'm...

Thanks guys... I'm over it now...my solution...3 dates this weekend with 3 different women. Keep going and just having fun in the moment

Thanks guys, I have 0 interest in this woman now and am not heartbroken about the experience. I was more down on the string of women I have met and gone out with yet there hasn't been that connection. I know dating is a numbers game but its natural to sometimes wish your number comes up sooner...

:cuss: I think I tried to do something like this...we somehow got on the topic if family members ever tease her about getting older and still not settling down... Her - "yes they tease me all the time" Me - " so they tell you your eggs are going to dry up if you don't hurry?" Her - "no...

The other dates were amicable and it was evident that there was no spark but I didn't feel uncomfortable or get awkward vibes from the woman. I don't normally have these types of negative experiences on dates so it threw me a little. Just looking to find the best way to forget it and move on...

So I just came back from what possible could be the worst date of my life...high level summary - 3rd date with this 32 yr old dr. First two dates went ok this was the third. - the conversation flow was off the whole date. It felt like I was walking on egg shells the whole time. Long periods...

For me I'm online dating, joining groups/events in my community, and approaching women that catch my eye.

UPDATE: Ok, I'm back from my trip and thought I would share with everyone how it turned out. Before I left I told myself I would not blame anyone for the predicament I found myself in. This meant I had to eliminate all thoughts of this girl who screwed me over. I told myself this was going...

Ok let me set some things straight... 1. I was not interested in this woman for a relationship. I was interested in her as a FB. The fact that she lied to me and couldn't be straight with me was disappointing but I'm not losing sleep over it. I've been dating women since I posted my message and...

Should I even respond to her message or just ignore and delete her from my network? I know I am not going to convince her to reconsider...so I'm wondering if there is any benefit to acknowledge she screwed me.

Thanks guys for all your advice... All my friends back home are pretty much introverts and would rather stay home and drink for nye so I'm thinking I will steer on the side of action and go by myself on this adventure. What better way to grow right? As for this whole experience, I...

Thanks guys for your insights... What's done is done and I'm looking to salvage the experience and learn from it. If you want me to feel stupid of the predicament I'm in well I am certainly embarrassed. I never was planning to have a relationship with this woman so I am not heart broken but...

tickets bought through 3rd party so cancelling won't work. I didn't even respond to her text...really don't know If there would be any point at this stage...I guess I can just chalk this up to an expensive lesson - significant risk of women flaking is always present...regardless of what she...