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    Upstairs neighbor

    I have a hot blonde neighbor that lives above me. She moved in about a month ago. I went up to her door probably the second day after she moved in and her boyfriend answered. I kind of just talked to him while she was still unpacking even though she said hi. He made it known that he doesn't live...
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    Any DJs with ADD?

    I just found out that I have ADD. It seems to be the biggest reason for my failure with women. It effects aspects of attention, conversation, and almost everything else involved in trying to make new relationships. Does anyone else have ADD? I found this site and it was a revelation...
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    Warming up for clubbing

    I don't go clubbing a lot, but I've noticed that when I do go and I haven't been in a while it takes a while to get warmed up to be able to effectively approach and engage women. If I go out the next night I am much more effective because I'm used to the situation. I guess I should start going...
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    Approach no matter what

    I am a relative newbie to the DJ world, but I would like to repeat what has probably been said here before. This just happened so I'll use this as the example. I am at the library and I see a statuesque model type walk by. I am thinking that if I don't approach her I may miss out. So I take...
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    Should you leave a message the first time?

    I am sick of calling a girl the first time and having to leave a message. They usually don't call back. I am much better talking to a person than a machine. From now on, I am going to ask when is a good time to call and call at that time. If they don't answer the first time, I'll call back at a...
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    Can't get over my past

    I have been lurking and learning here for over a year. It has helped me greatly in dealing with women. I had almost zero confidence with women before. This has caused me to have no ambitionin life. Now I have the skills to make a woman smile. I love a woman's smile. However, I always have...
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    Should I call back?

    This chick gave me her number at a club. I asked her to dance. We were going to dance, but the DJ totally sucked. I told her we can have some coffee. She said she can't do without coffee. I told her I 'd call. Called 4 Days later, tried to set up where we can meet. She told me she had off...
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    Unconscious body language

    How many body language signals do you guys get from women that seems as if they are doing them unconsciously? A lot of times when I talk to women they start to mess with their hair a lot. I know they may be a little nervous at first, talking to me but as the conversation flows they do it...
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    Reading a woman's mind

    I have worked in retail in shoe departments. At the time I was also studying body language. (by the way a shoe department job is one of the best ways in order to become more comfortable interacting with women and people in general) I brought out these shoes for a woman after talking for about...
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    Hand massage

    I was at a club the other night talking to this girl sitting at the bar. I asked her name and waited for her to ask mine (she did this by giving me a look). I said that she looked like she had a lot of tension or something like that and she said "yeah, I do" and she started rubbing her...
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