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I don't think women are suddenly attracted to you once you've walked away. In a sense, this is true, but not in the way you might think. If you've been in a relationship with someone for whatever length of time then you've both developed an attraction toward one another to some degree...

Perhaps. Imo, she's protecting her relationship and my contact or communication with her is a threat. If the child isn't mine, which it likely isn't, she likely perceived my query as absurd, malicious, and a risk to her current relationship with an invested, reliable soon to be father...

Well, fellas, that blew up in my face. No response and blocked when asked if she's sure. Hey-ho.

I was hesitant but my plan is to contact her, determine if she's confident about who the child belongs to, and co-operate and cover the costs of DNA testing if she's willing without her boyfriend knowing if necessary.. If it is mine, well, that's something I'll need to think about and prepare for.

I've considered it and it is possible but unlikely (given that protection was used and her pregnancy stage). I learned about her pregnancy through somebody else and would not have known about it otherwise as she's left. I will contact her to get more info. soon.

I am completely disengaged and have been for a while and work somewhere else now. She has left as well, as she's pregnant, and it's probable that he will now be supporting her and she will be unemployed but I don't know what decisions she has or will make.

Thanks for your comment. I understand and agree, and particularly appreciate point 2. The whole process was a frame-grab op. What a sight.. I am/was in the process of rationalising how she got back together with him because I was a very good option (at-least, I would have expected this to be...

Circumstance and attraction just led to it. I was also moving to a new company soon. I believe I managed the situation well; there was minimal drama after we stopped seeing each other, and communication was not affected to a degree that it would hinder work objectives. There were risks, yes...

Hey there. I'm new to this forum but was familiar with it in my early 20s and used to follow the forum for a short period. Anyway, I'm here to share a recent experience with everybody to gain clarity (writing it down helps and when it is exposed to the public your biases are exposed). I am...