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Regarding to your question, i live in a decent area and obviously i would never go for a girl that obviously looks the way you described or gives off such a vibe as i hope any man on this board would do, however i believe that this does not immediately have that much of an impact on whether a...

Hello gentlemen. I am currently 24, soon to be 25 and as i keep growing older i keep noticing one thing growing along with me, my fear of contracting something from intimate physical contact from a woman i just met, i don't need to explain how the older they are, the more miles they are likely...

Can i get some context?

As i said, i don't have any plans to do anything like this, i was purely curious. Also as you said the girl that made me think of that scenario in the first place is probably one of the most insecure people i have ever met, i mean, she posts pictures of the backs of other women and pretends its...

To clarify, i am completely aware of how stupid this sounds and also i meant it in the context that she knows i want her to change to fit my criteria and she is willing to do it however i instruct her

Hello gentlemen. I am making this post due to the reason i got 'catfished' as many of us unfortunately have been at some point of our lives. I went on a date with a girl that looked like a 7-7.5 on her photos (yeah im talking online dating, yeah i know it sucks) and she even posted pics of other...

The only solution-ish thing i would think of in such a bizarre case would be completely ignoring all and every aspects of her existence. Ignore calls, ignore any kind of attempt to reach out and generally just keep ignoring her, her interest will have to die out after an x amount of time of...

That is what it boils down to in the end

I don't think that the word 'trick' is the right word for what this is. Most women will feel cheap if you tell them 'hey, let's get a hotel room' and this is only natural since you are placing her in a position of having to actively accept this and give you a response, thus there is a moral...

I will assume you did not even read my post considering how your comment has nothing to do with the subject i inquired about, however i do appreciate the general advice.

There are not unfortunately and even if there were i live 30km from downtown so you can imagine what that is like

Car is how i've been dealing with this. However i ended up considering taking a break for game in general because it is not the type of game that i like anymore, as i imagine many of us feel like

Hello gentlemen. For the past few months i had to move back with my parents for personal reasons and obviously that has been the greatest strike to my game. You may go out on a perfect date but if you don't have an apartment to go back to with the girl and chill, then it's by default very...

In this thread let's share and talk about opener lines that we use on Tinder and explain why we choose them. For me, i frequently ask right off the bat 'if you could wake up tomorrow and be anywhere in the world, where would you pick?' It has worked wonders for me because firstly you separate...

I think this specific post is extremely insightful in a psychological/social context. When i think about it, most, if not all of the people i know including me back in the day who allowed and tolerated such toxic dynamics in their interpersonal but mostly in their romantic relationships, used to...

Then again, i suppose that the very act of thinking "i want to prove to myself that i'm not the same guy i used to be" no matter how great or little the extent and awareness of this thought is, could very well be leftovers of a past beta mindset that have not yet been shaken off. The very act of...

I completely agree. I'd be lying if i didn't say that i wanted to validate myself by seeing how i would behave in a past beta enviroment, but in the end i feel that the whole experience was more detrimental than beneficial.

I overestimated myself in the context that i was certain i would be able to control the frame and flow of events, to the point where any prior history and negative dynamics would be rendered meaningless. I did not even consider the possibility that she would behave in such a way. What you said...

Hello, first of all i'd like to say that this forum has been extremely helpful for me as i imagine it has been for several young men who never had any guidance from anyone regarding women and gender social dynamics. My first encounter with this forum was after reading The Rational Male which...