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    My thoughts on women/dating lately...

    Regarding OLD there are not too many other options honestly. At 45 I'm well past the bar game (even when I was younger, I never really cared for it or the women that regularly hang out at bars). I don't date at work, friends are mostly busy with their lives/families so I don't have friends to go...
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    My thoughts on women/dating lately...

    So my last LTR ended just at the beginning of the COVID19 spread in the US. That's another story for another day. However, since then I've had a lot of time for thoughts and ponderings on various things. I figured I might as well post a few of them here and see what others think: We all knew...
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    Men who get jealous possessive of their woman

    First people who say stupid cliche sh*t like 'just move on bro' or 'an ex is an ex for a reason' or 'people who get jealous don't have options' have never truly been in love or loved (many people here unfortunately) and that's sad. Having said that if you're with a good looking woman yes she...
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    Dating gets much better for men as you age. Read on...

    Agreed. Plus I'm way past the bars and places where it's usually the slvts who hang out. My last two LTRs came from OLD.
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    Dating gets much better for men as you age. Read on...

    Granted I'm just dipping my toes into the OLD dating pool again coming off of a LTR I'm not finding that to be the case. I think it is harder than when I was 42. It seems 45+ is the magic no where women in their 30s don't want anything to do with you. I get a lot of likes from those in their...
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    Posting pics with women

    I see a lot of women on OLD rarely write anything about themselves but always leave their instagram/snapchat info. No thanks. I don't even do social media, it's a place for women to find free validation and feel good about themselves.
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    How bad the situation in America is for single men and the obvious reason.

    I'm recently back to the dating scene and I'm finding it harder to find decent women these days. I'm too old for the younger ones (they see the age and it's a turn off). Heck the other day I saw a profile of a 39! yo saying, anyone 45+ you're too old, don't bother messaging me. I was like, lady...
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    How bad the situation in America is for single men and the obvious reason.

    So this is why gangbang videos show one woman and 6 guys :rofl:
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    Meeting/f**king new girls during quarantine

    I just signed up for POF a week or so ago. May be it's POF but man most of these women are cringe worthy. There's a live streaming feature on the app now where I noticed a few 7s and 8s. I connected to a couple just to see what the feature was about...you wouldn't believe all these thirsty guys...
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    Posting pics with women

    I've never done it before but I'm experimenting this right now. I have one of the pics (not the main of course) in my OLD profile with my ex but her face is smudged, cute dress, sexy body, heels etc all showing. Other women don't know if that's my ex or a friend etc. However, the hard part is...
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    What do you do when she is unwell?

    Being alpha doesn't mean you treat her like she's not a human being. An alpha is someone who knows his worth, has boundaries but is also caring and sensitive towards people he loves. I just SMH when I see some of the stuff that gets posted here.
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    Do muscles get more sensitive after a prolonged stop?

    Depends on a lot of things, like age, muscle recovery time etc. I have/had the opposite problem recently where my strength kept increasing without any muscle mass gain. But it was also recompositioning. I'd much rather train with less weight and more reps to pump blood into the muscles and...
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    How bad is the body language for this gal this incel-tier man is trying to mack?

    Perhaps, but that's the only chance to close the gap. We already know the alternative. Watch The33secrets on YTube. If I were her, I'd do the same thing. Heck even as a man I'd not want to be seen hanging around someone like that guy. Being overweight is one thing, looking grungy with possibly...
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    How bad is the body language for this gal this incel-tier man is trying to mack?

    That was painful to watch. She's like a 4 in my book and the dude's a 1. Not happening. He looks like he just crawled out of a cave. If he'd at least put on better clothes and gotten a haircut he could've been a 3-4 and would have had a better chance. However, these days even women who are 4...
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    Holding women accountable for their actions/expecting them to think about the future is a recipe for dating failure.

    If it's a woman I'm seeing of course I call her out if she's trying to manipulate the situation/me in anyway. I simply say what I need to say either she gets it and apologizes or I walk and apply silence/distance. In most cases they come back and apologize after realizing what worked for them...
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    Home gym minimums

    Thanks, it's one of the best investments I ever made. It wasn't that expensive as it paid for itself in less than 2yrs of any gym membership cost and not to mention the convenience (and no excuse for not working out). But for most finding the room is a challenge so I'm lucky in that sense.
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    Home gym minimums

    Here's my home gym, it's all I need. As for the bulky part...I think that'll be tough unless you go with a pullup bar that goes in the door jamb and perhaps a set of adjustable dumbbells. All depends on what type of workout you do. I started with the first three then added a few other things...
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    How Is Your Job Going To Hold Up?

    For the time being I'm not impacted. However, I'm concerned about the longer term impact (1-3 months out). Most businesses that rely on or are in retail, restaurants, travel/entertainment will be directly impacted. That will create a big layoff event, which in turn will affect most other...
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    Feedback on my workout routine/progress

    I'm looking for input from those who actually know what they're talking about otherwise I can continue listening to all the 3500 youtube channels selling the dream. Summary: - Always 'worked out' (read half assed screwing around with light weights, push ups etc) but have always been skinny fat...
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    Any martial artists out there? What martial art is good for protection?

    I don't have a CCW permit but do own and am fairly decent with a handgun. However, it's really for home defense, if someone breaks into my house especially with a weapon I'm pulling the trigger. However, on the streets I don't want to get into a gun fight it's a sure recipe for a disaster, many...
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