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bp's on the money there, you gotta trust your gut. My LDR failed after a year of trying, and we were in quite a strong relationship. If your relationship is even slightly less than perfect, distance is gonna kill it. Bottom line: one of you move, or you will eventually break up. If the...

Don't do it. Do NOT do it. I dunno how long you've known her, but it's a Bad Idea. I'll leave it to others to explain why. Osc.

Don't use the Fetherlite and other thin brands - I've had them burst before. Use the strongest ones unless you really honestly feel the difference (try 'em at least). Buy fresh ones, never risk an old one (again, it's just not worth it).

Hehe, read this and smiled. Wasn't going to reply, but the kids insistance that people give a sh!t about his reg date is just funny. Dude, you're a tw@t. You flame and troll your way through the boards and post nothing meaningful or helpful. E.g. your reply to my security post. The last...

Don't take it as Gospel, but don't ignore it Hell yeah, older women can be both easier and harder to deal with. They've been through the usual sh!t so don't play so many games, they're quicker to tell you when somethings up. But don't take everything here without questioning - some...

What he said. I actually had some advice on a couple of things, but I'm not going to encourage you by responding. Please don't abuse this fine resource again.

I don't recommend emailing that, but I do like the idea. Why not get her alone for a drink and saying it?

What's your platform and browser? What state are your preferences (particularly security settings)? Go check em.

Sure, and you're a naive 17 year old :) And yes, in general I am paranoid - part of my job. But not in this case. I have seen this exploited* with unfortunate results. (* maybe the wrong phrasology - the incident was unintentional).

"Bad boys" and C&F - this sh!t works y'know. Don't be surprised. Frankly, you should know exactly why she said yes. Go read the bible again.

If it's a date you go alone. If it's not a date, invite others. So you made it not a date. Did you want it to be? You should judge her interest in you, and then ask her straight out. Go read the bible too.

You can beat it. I'm a very social guy, going out 3 - 6 nights a week, parties, lots of friends (they're great, specially when you're feeling down). Yet when I was in highschool I used to read books in bed all day and never go out. I was antisocial, didn't do sports, was bullied, etc etc...

I have an extremely recent experience which is directly related to this. I needed to talk to the girl, because I knew the relationship was getting fscked up. I have had another LTR end because of bad communication, and wasn't about to let it happen this time. She refused and avoided...

Dude, you move to .uk yet? Going for it? I'd forget about this immature biatch tbh. Gonna be doing some DJing in Dublin soon - maybe try some CAs Walden style - I'll post reports on what's working for us Irish. Osc.

Prosemont, dude you deserve a reply all of your own. First of all, thanks! You really nailed some stuff on the head there. I think you're wrong on one or two things, like about the colleague - my gut feeling from the times I've met him is that nothing's going on there. But the majority of...

Thanks guys. squirrels: I do take it as a positive sign that she wants to stay in an apptmt with me - it's great! But the larger issue, that she is so afraid of getting hurt in a relationship, that is the killer blow: it's hurting me big-time. Sadly I'm a very sensitive guy, behind the usual...

My (almost ex-) GF is the same, she's tried not to hold me back from stuff, and I've interpretted it as low IL also. (Now we're breaking up for a similar reason).

You europeans are crap - where's me damn replies? I'll get a tonne from the US guys I'll bet! :) Ok, I'm feeling terribly depressed. I just talked the situation through with my sister, and my gut feeling is not to go. And to break it off. The rule for me is to follow my gut instinct, so I...

I want some more "give" from her in the relationship, and she seems unable or unprepared to. I'm thinking we're done when we get back anyway. Damn, I'm feeling very negative about this all right now. She sent me a mail saying "ok, my last thoughts about this topic... I don't want to have...

LTR dilemma Hey guys, I'm working to a tight schedule here, quick replies appreciated. Here's the situation: - going out with GF for 9 weeks - 3 weeks ago had incident where she said she "had intended to dump me" - got back with her, never got around to discussing in depth the...