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first of all, I don't bytch. Second of all, I want him to MAKE time for me. I'm not going to sit around waiting for him to fit me in. I have my own life and if he doesn't have time for a relationship right now, then I want out. I don't expect him to blow off work to spend time with me...

I'd like to spend more time with my boyfriend of 9 months. Between work, judo practice, and a engineering grad class he's taken, I've been pushed to the back of his priority list. Do I wait it out until he gets his studying schedule under control, or do I say something to him? I want to be...

update I appreciate all the good advice I've gotten on this post. I talked to my bf last night and 1. apologized for suggesting that we take a break. I told him that I didn't want a break, and I was just trying to assess the situation. 2.I told him that guys had led me on in the...

two way street maybe if men would let us know how they feel about us and/or the situation, women wouldn't have to play games or try tests. I haven't usually "tested" in the past, but I'm shy and quiet and testing is passive aggressive and less confrontational. All we're looking for is some...

I agree, what I did wasn't fair to him, but I didn't know how to approach the topic. I wanted to feel him out, and see where he thought things were headed. I don't want out of the relationship, I want him to be INTO me and he doesn't seem to be as much as I'd like. How am I supposed to find out...

yes I was testing him. I want to know if he'll be there for me in the next month or so, since my mother is dying. I didn't want him to stay with me just because he thought he had to in this situation. I'm not trying to create drama, I'm trying to get some clarity. I was trying to give him an...

I've been dating a great guy for almost 6 months now. The conversation is good, sex is good, common interests are there, intellectual equals. overall, very good beginning. last night I asked if he thought we should take a break (My mother is very ill and I've been out of town a lot). me: I...

why would she? why would a girl, hot or not, wave to two pefect strangers. you could be serial killers for all she knows. she doesn't know you. Women, in general, in public, always have their guard up. And do not usually go looking to meet men in the street, on a bus, etc. If you were sitting...

don't give up I agree, don't make this a "requirement" because you will end up alone. Make it a "want" and go places where you will meet these kinds of women. Sierra Club, Outdooe Adventure Clubs, college Outing clubs, hiking, biking, paddling clubs... the list is endless. If you want to meet...

How fast should a relationship develop?? of course every one is different... but in my case, we've gone out 2 1/2 months. SHould I expect to meet his friends??? should I ask him to go out with mine?? should we be spending the night w/each other? we currently see each other 2-3 x a week...

whoa if you're this angry over a weeklong hook-up with a slutty immature woman, I wonder how upset you'd get after a "real" relationship. you might have some anger problems. work them out before you get involved with anyone else.

not necessarily a bad thing isn't is better to meet a woman who isn't high maintenance and will go along with things?? I'm a lot like that as well, easy going, it does not mean that she is submissive. It doesn't mean that she don't care, it just means that she's easy going. It does not mean...

This is the guy I was asking about who doesn't seem to want sex, or isn't in a hurry to get any, but we have a great time together, and do 'everything but' sex. last week: Still no sex, but I did ask him, "so do you want to have actual sex one of these days?" and he laughed and nodded and...

there's still hope 1. if you don't suggest something specific, you sound wussy and indecisive 2. you sounded desperate on the phone she showed that she's still interested in you by emailing you after the weekend. If you're going out of town this weekend, then plan to ask her out next week...

new afc no, this is an entirely new one! :D He's very sexual and sensual, which makes this more strange. He seems very attracted to me, and is very tactile. He enjoys the Bjs and seems very comfortable and relaxed when we're together. I've just never laid in bed naked with a naked guy...

I've been dating a great guy for about a month now. Conversation is great, we seem to click pretty well, and we've done a lot of fun things, like pool, dinner, movies, etc. We joke around and both seem to feel comfortable around each other. there's only one problem...he doesn't seem to want...

no no no winking is creepy. the only way you can wink is in a very sly, totally joking manner with a woman that you already know. Anything else is gonna weird someone out.

what? smothered?? there is no possible way he's feeling smothered. I haven't seen him in over 2 weeks and only talked to him twice since I got back from vacation. I'm careful to NOT smother him. I'm playing it very cool and casual. I HAVE started to see another guy. It's not my job to make him...

hmm even more confused so I called guy #1, fully expecting to leave a message, but he answered. so we chatted for a few minutes and then I said I was calling to get my CDs back. And he says "hey why are you calling for that, do you think I'm blowing you off. I kinda laughed and he kept...

aghh so the date with the new guy went really well. great conversation, excellent dinner and her asked for my number at the end and said he'd like to go out again. but I think the wishy washy guy is blowing me off. He seems to be avoiding me, and hasn't made any effort to see me since I've...