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Batman, You sound like a good man who is trying to do the right thing. It's tough but not impossible trying to maintain alpha male 100% of the time in a marriage without the support of your wife. A good woman naturally encourages her husband to be strong. There is no need to make comments...

Hello All, Thank you in advance your the years of wisdom you have provided and any insight you can offer into my current situation. I am a long-time lurker I am in my early 40's married with a 1 year old and one on the way. I was briefly married to a BPD woman 8 years ago. She was 10...

Hello All, I posted a while back but this still bother me. I bounced from house to house as a kid father in prison or drunk / high when he was out. Mother had kids with 5 different men and was not in my life. .Many schools and different cities. I did bounce in and out of one particular city...

I think when I had them as friends, I saw them as lifelong parts of my life. New friends I meet are simply not that deep. As they say down south "guest manners", no real closeness. I also think that around late 40s-50's we may connect again as kids are on their own and we have more free time. I...

Hello All, I grew up with no family and my friends were my family. We were punks i.e sold weed , stole, etc and around 23-25, most had moved on and I settled down remaining in contact with 1-2. These guys were my family and I sense resistance to re-connecting. We are in our early 40's...

I have been on this site for years and it has helped me immensely. I have been trying to build a social group in my mid 40's with no success. I was trying to reestablish my childhood friends and some have moved on and show no interest. Even 1-2 '"nerds" never got back to me. I learned from...

Hello All, In my mid 40's and lately have been trying to connect with late teen early 20 something friends. Most of the guys I hung with during this time drank and smoked weed but they all worked and a few are doing okay. Overall, I am not having that much success reconnecting. A few phone...