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Ps: she's put on some weight thank god lol

Just wanted to post an update. I just finished hanging out with her right now. I know it was a stupid idea (so you guys don't have to lecture me) but I guess I stupidly still had a little hope left in me and she kept texting me every day. We hanged out but she clearly was not in a great mood...

Agreed. Although mine was similar to yours and went through nasty up and downs I do think there something engraved in our personality traits that not only allow us to tolerate it and to have a hard time moving on from it. Definetly something I want to understand better about myself to work on.

I've had hot woman break up with me before and although I was heartbroken I didn't find anything particularly wrong on there part. They just genuinely didn't like me no more lol. BPD woman are more promiscuous than your average woman so although there might only be 1.6% of the population they...

I really don't care for this discussion lol but you got to keep in mind that BPD woman also do a lot more dating compared to the average chick. I could be wrong maybe my ex wasn't BPD. It doesn't matter she behaved in the same way. Maybe she wasn't that into me? Jesus Christ why does it matter...

Went through the love/euphoria face only to be crushed and thrown out like a toy just like a lot of you fellow BPD survivors lol. She started a new relationship and she preety much went through the whole cycle again with new guy. She hit me up about every 2-3 (probably every time her and new guy...

I'm 5 and a half is that small or average

Are you asking if I still live in my hometown? Yes

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Idk man but please enlighten me lol

Btw much appreciate the input will definetly be using this thread for my self growth. That monkey mind thing was very interesting too I'm actually doing some reading on that now haha

I don't. Please elaborate!

I actually have boxed before (preety decent) but I stopped going due to external reasons but it's definitely on my list of to do list!

What's the demographic at these clubs? Just wondering

No I don't. I have a deficit of friends at this point of my life. I grew up playing soccer so I had a lot of soccer friends and now that I'm not as into soccer it's hard for me to create friendships with non soccer people. I have one real friend outside of soccer and it's because we're both into...

What are some ways you would start a social circle from scratch? Having three sounds awesome but first I gotta learn to create one.

Great advice! I like the mentality of treating it like an engineering degree! I am wondering what exactly are toastmasters and have you ever attended some?

I went through a messed up break up last year and made me very depressed for a long time but it also made me very motivated to bettering myself. I'm still in the process of improving myself and have not focused on the social part of my life because I've been rigorously working/going to school...

I read the book "The Mystery Method" which I'm sure many of you have. It's about seducing attractive woman. One of the things that stood out to me was that according to the book you can find fulfillment and happiness in life if you have HW and L. If you're missing any of the three you can't...

Of course. It's basically like being dumped because she gave you no choice therefore her interest or desire to stay in the relationship is low.