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Ive tried both strategies with low/medium interested woman. One giving attention and messaging and all that and it rarely works if their interest is not high. Also to bring up their interest level is too much work. On the other hand, when u just mirror what they do and really not give into her...

Why three days later ?. Dont overthink, go with a purpose and get her out on her own for a drink.

Nobody is bitching here, isnt this a community for improvement ?.. I was asking for advice and if anyone experienced the same and can relate to it. You seem more bitchy than what you think that I am.

Ive been on online dating for some years now, Ive tried all platforms, paid sites like Match, eharmony, and others like tinder and pof. Ive had fairly good results with 6s 7s and 8s mostly. However, lately for some months Ive noticed that I get girls to respond to my messages but they are just...

Tough journey..Im in

I saw mistakes from the beginning why engaging so much on text first ? ...dont answer anything or just text "ok".. If no counteroffer soon..ciao..ciao

Yes and No. Both strategies have worked for me. Sometimes just the fact of her seeing your confidence and not giving three craps about if she gives you her number or not works, perhaps she can find you really attractive and many other reasons/variables who knows who cares. Other times they want...

I think one thing most of us agree here, whichever your preference is and you feel comfortable with either if its mass approaching, cold approaching, real life, clubs, situational etc. If you are someone that has a lot or some things on your favor ( in shape, financially well off, good social...

Its not easy sometimes, something that is helping me right now is joining meetup with interests that I have, people join with the same purpose.

That has happened to me sometimes, I used to dwell on it, sometimes showing her my frustration which pushed her away even further. Nowadays I just let it go, there could be a million reasons of why she didn't text back. I go onto the next girl and let her reappear if she wants. If you want to...

You are answering yourself in the first paragraph for what you are asking. Why 5 hours ?,, and why would you care about being rude or not on a first date if you don't even know her. It is nice enough to cut the chase and stop wasting time for you and her opening that spot for a girl that does...

Thats exactly what I did, started my attempts to kiss around 15 20 minutes after escalation. usually it has been right in my recent first dates with other girls but for some reason (perhaps not into me ) this time the kiss didnt happen but kino was allowed and she seemed ok with it.

Not sure if I should have opened another thread, but on this same note, what would u guys do if she is receptive to kino and just does not give in for a kiss even towards the end of the date ?.. I made several attempts with push pull but she just didnt put out and seemed fine with kino.

After doing online dating for 10 years and seeing it all...cant agree more on 90 percent that you will find there. Its for quickfixes and bye

You are again concentrating on other factors/people than yourself, what you can only control os your attitude, everythong is else subjective and you just have to give your best. Change things around or the heck get better at offline dating, it has other advantages.

Why concentrate on others ? make the difference, the more quality the more competition. It will always exist just go for it, learn and continue

+ 1, I believe the question shouldnt be too broad and give me a behaviour she is showing and then we can talk about how should my daughter ( if I had one) or women be treated in return

Thanks will try

What I meant was that there is no reason to overthink this.

Next.. nothing wrong with your answer,, a million things could have happened to her.. a million more things should be more important to you.