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    Stringing me along?

    I'm sorry to say man but it looks like you acted like a typical nice guy. Carrying her stuff etc. And giving her a ride home... You could just rather ask her out without doing all those nice guy things. You see, somebody that buys her food, drinks, carries her stuff, drives her home safely...
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    So what does she want?

    This is a story that's been going on since almost a year. I'm in a student in a foreign country. When I first came here I didn't know their language and this chick, she almost didn't speak English at all(she could a bit but it was terrible). However, she was flirting with me by touching etc. I...
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    My response to a rejection?

    This is someone I come across often at school. How should I act? Should I just ignore her and not even look when I pass by her?
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    GF wants to go away for a week - I said no

    Well, I'm not good at dating but I know about relationships cause I had long relationships and I'm 27 right now. One thing I know is that you are playing it wrong. The more you try to control her, the more you make it worse and push her into somebody else's arms. Just let her go and don't say...
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    My response to a rejection?

    This is the way that I asked: "I would love to see you. When are you free? I can come over there(she lives in 40 min distance) or you can come here as well.". I guess I asked the right way. And in the answer she actually exactly said: "yes but for the moment i cannot, I don't have time". I can't...
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    My response to a rejection?

    Thanks again. Sorry, one last question: With the answer that I've given to the rejection; do I look like a totally weak and desperate guy? :/ Actually I'm planning to not contact her again ever until she reaches out.
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    My response to a rejection?

    Thank you for your answer. That makes sense. So how bad is it what I've done? Did I totally blew it?
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    My response to a rejection?

    So there's this chick at the University. She's been sending me messages over facebook and at school sometimes coming to speak to me. We also had some conversation over facebook and and school aswell. She seemed interested. Most of the time I let her initiate the contact. I'm assuming that I...
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    Finally met a great girl, will over communicating kill it?

    Communication devices are only for setting appointments. If you keep doing that you will turn her off. You can talk to her on text when it's been some time in the relationship like 3 months and you are official. But right now what you should be doing is not to exchange many text messages and use...
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    She accepts date, but then gets cold

    Update2: As I kept on gaming, her flirtation got more intense. She showed more and more interest. Just as I ask her out for the second time, she got cold again as before and then she blew me off like last time. Here is a twist in the story: The day that I asked her out, I went to a party and...
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    Just a quickie...

    Here's my comment. She's banging you but she is not your girlfriend, meaning; she's a type of girl who bangs some guys that she's not in a relationship with - makes ****buddies. She might as well be banging other guys while she's banging you too. Do you really want to be in a relationship with...
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    Why does a woman change quickly

    Facebook, Cellphone etc. should be used for only setting dates. There can be countless reasons to why she lost interest. Back off and see what she does. If she reaches out to you, make a definite date and don't talk to her on text. The only way to know is by simply asking her out.
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    Should I ask a female out more then once if they don't respond?

    Drop it man, she'll get back to you if she really wants. You should have learned by now that chasing girls never works. If you message her after this point you will look like one of those losers. And probably she has dozens of other men like you. Anyway, why are you trying it on internet? Go out...
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    Just got dumped, what did I do wrong? How can I improve?

    Mate, I understand that it hurts; being dumped hurts. And it will hurt a little while. But it will pass with time. Now you might be feeling like she's the only girl in the world but some time later you will say: why did I hurt myself for this crap. Don't do alcohol or any ****, you need to feel...
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    She accepts date, but then gets cold

    Update! I'd like to thank the_stig for his advice to act like she doesn't exist. I did exactly and she came around. I don't think that we will end together but I can write this for others; for educational purposes. After a month of walking away and meaning it, she finally came to me, asked how...
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    She accepts date, but then gets cold

    Hello everyone, I'd like to share the awkward situation that I'm in to find out what the hell has happened cause I am completely confused. Sorry that it's long. I am an exchange student at another country. There's a very beautiful girl in the school. I didn't have interest in her because...
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