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    How to get rid of unrealistic thoughts/fantasies?

    Sometimes I find myself fantasising about certain things - and I realise a little bit of everyday fantasy is normal - but I'm talking about unrealistic thought processes and narcissistic reveries which take you far from reality and ultimately waste your time and even raise false perceptions...
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    What would happen in a BPD-ASPD relationship?

    If a female who has some degree of BPD and a male who has some form of ASPD/Sociopathy (basically, two people with Cluster B traits), were to date or enter into a 'relationship', how would that look? Would the male be relatively unfazed by the females attempts at manipulations, mind games and...
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    Been offered a new job and would appreciate advice.

    Been in a job (ad industry) for the past year or so in the country capital. Good company, big clients - it's a decent job but the pay is crappy. However, despite trying, I just cannot fit in with my team, who are all female - fairly power and control hungry but good at their jobs. Kinda sick of...
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    Why do I only love them when I can't have them anymore?

    This has been a big issue for me, repeating itself multiple times throughout my last relationship. I only seemed to realise the extent of my feelings for her when I could no longer have her or when she was with someone else. It is incredibly frustrating to say the very least - it caused me to...
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    Feelings of regret and constant urges to contact her

    TL;DR: Having massive regrets of letting ex girlfriend (who demonstrated possible cluster B traits during the first 6 months, but looking back I'm not sure if she actually was) slip through my fingers only to realise how much she meant to me after she was ready to move on and cut me out of her...
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    Possible HPD/BPD ex girlfriend? - Not your usual story.

    I apologise for the length of this; it's just been weighing on my mind for a while now..... ** Skip to the 'indications of HPD' part if you don't want to read the back-story. I’ll start by saying I cared for this girl immensely and still do - our 8 month relationship was stressful...
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