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    Girl with bf is into me in public, but cold in private, what does she want?

    Maybe my question "What does she want from me is silly?" is not a good one. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/girl-change-mind-so-fast.229503/ This thread tells me: "Don't try to make sense of out woman...By the time a girl breaks it off with you, she has already thought about...
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    Girl with bf is into me in public, but cold in private, what does she want?

    Thanks to everyone. I see a lot of Master DJ, Senior DJ, Mods are here to help. That's one thing I appreciate about this place. I often hear a girl is acting cold to a guy in public, but nice to him in private. She doesn't want him, she is playing games. I am dealing with the opposite. I...
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    Girl with bf is into me in public, but cold in private, what does she want?

    About her: HB8, bf in another state, wears make-up, spends 20 min getting ready to go out. We live in a house, nobody messes with her, if she sets the heater at 72, don't try to change it. About us: We are roommates, living together for a month now. There are 2 others. Her bf came over...
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    Do you add your boss's daughter on Facebook?

    update: I feel the boss has lost interest. I knew it! I am acting too slow. Well, I tried to post a message on this board, but no reply. I tried! Today I went to work, I lacked sleep, I was nervous to see her, she called me to do a few things. She is not smiling anymore, that adrenaline...
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    Do you add your boss's daughter on Facebook?

    come'on guys, I need some serious advice. :P
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    What to do after getting rejected

    In you case, less is more. You don't want to be the center of gossip. Stay low profile for few weeks, keep you head down low til things are normal again. Right now, no news is good news for you. You should be praying hard that they don't talk about you. Girls sometimes come back to the...
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    Do you add your boss's daughter on Facebook?

    Thanks, WanderingMan. What I've done so far is to let her feel that her daughter is too good for me. She can find better. I didn't even hint the boss lady with a "no, let's not do it", because that might hurt her ego and put me on blacklist. The boss lady enjoys talking to me herself. She...
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    Do you add your boss's daughter on Facebook?

    My boss at work really likes me. She tries to hook me up with her daughter. She brought her along to introduce to me. Her daughter is not exactly pretty, but she's a 4.0 gpa student in college. I like that! But, I'm not dating a co-worker, that I know. The daughter tried to talk to me a...
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    Girl I'm dating denied sex. Think I failed a colossal **** test. Salvageable?

    It is hard to diagnose the situation without actually knowing details. You lost some grounds. But that's ok. You and her may started at 50-50, maybe now it is 30-70. These numbers are not fixed anyways. You can get it back up with the right mind set. No need to think about this...
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    she showed interest, she is cold and hot, anti-slvt defense is stopping us

    Her birthday is coming up It will be her birthday. I want to wish her happy birthday on chat messenger. What are your thoughts? I am not looking for sex. She is a LTR material, not looking after my money or status. She did not decisively go after me knowing those things. I find that...
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    she showed interest, she is cold and hot, anti-slvt defense is stopping us

    divorced family, reply to comments Thorninmyside, Getting laid may give me a quick fix, but does very little for self-improvement. I think this site is encouraging self-improvement. sylvester the cat, You are probably right. I grew up in a divorced family. No mother figure. My relatives...
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    she showed interest, she is cold and hot, anti-slvt defense is stopping us

    she is out of the state, out of country, I am sad Today, she left the state. Her contract job here ended. She went back home. I held my chin up and high. I tell myself NC and next. But, the feeling is like the lost of a loved one, you try to make sense of it. But, there is no sense to...
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    Tell me why I shouldn't just fap to porn

    All things worth it takes time and hard work. There is take the easy path, you relax yourself now, you pay the heavy price later. There is also the hard path, you work very hard now, and the harvest will come to you at a later time.
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    Having sex with a girl you aren't attracted to

    This is a bad advice. Please do not listen to this advice! Porn does not make you less desperate. It makes you more desperate. You need help with your mind set, you need re-frame. You do not become alpha by watching porn. Alphas are busy and have goals. Being alpha takes work and...
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    Does anyone want to get married here???

    I think OP raised valid points. Peaks&Valleys should be banned! People should be able to write what they think without the fear of retribution. They should not be worried about what others say, or having the fear of being banned. I nominate P&V be banned. I have seen P&V using this...
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    she showed interest, she is cold and hot, anti-slvt defense is stopping us

    16 days since she left Shift, Thanks for the encouragement. On the 16th day Today, I really wanted to go back to see some pictures we had. I didn't feel nostalgic or sad. I begin to see the bads in her. We are brought up differently. I have dreams and goals for my career. She wants a...
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    Why are so many men here women-haters?

    P&V, You take every opportunity to call someone a troll. Spread more knowledge, help someone in need. You will be much better respected. Trust me!
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    Brought a Girl (My Co-Worker) Home but No Sex ... HELP

    I agree. OP, there is more to life than sex. You are too goal-oriented. This mentality will ruin you. Just chilax and have fun.
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    she showed interest, she is cold and hot, anti-slvt defense is stopping us

    A day I remembered her, the day I suppose to take her to church I can't get her out of my mind. I don't get it, I am better than her in every way----education, money, and status. There is someone chasing me. Why am I falling so hard for this girl? No, please don't tell me to screw with...
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    Why are so many men here women-haters?

    I agree with you. There is a sense of cynicism and negativity on this board. I believe that's the minority. Anyone can sign up and post here. You will get a sample of everything. In my past posts, I have encountered both peoples. Just because there is an advice, it does not mean it's...
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