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  1. jimjam

    Finally, finally get it

    Hey everyone. Wanted to write that I finally understand the inherint danger of messing around with NPD women. Nothing heartbteaking happened to me and I'm not gonna rehash the whole saga. Some of you may remember. Suffice to say that I distanced myself emotionally and observed her actions...
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    Who cares?

    Gents, an observation or a realization I had just recently. Seems to me that many of the questions posted on here can be answered simply with one sentence: Who Cares? Wht is she acting this way? Who cares? Is this a sh!t test? Who cares? I mean, really. Does it even matter. Any woman who is...
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    Grabbing life by the b@lls!!

    Hey everyone. Wanted to brag or sing my praises or confirm what most already know. Self improvement, introspection, discipline and focus, hard work and you will acheworkive ANYTHING!! ANYTHING!! Some of you may know that I've had my share of struggles. Through hard work and determination I...
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    Business cards

    What site has anyone ordered cards from for their business. I'm thinking of using Vistaprint just because of the low cost. Anyone use a better one? What is your experience? Results? Cost? Thanks in advance
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    Viagra

    Gentlemen.... Anyone ordering liquid or generic viagra from a research chemical site? Planetpeptide is shutting down and I've heard horror stories about Purity Solutions. Any advice on alternates? I want something cheap and delivered quickly. Thanks
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    las Vegas

    Whatever happened to that thread about the dude's gf going to egas with her soon to be ex husband? Did it get removed? I don't see it anywhere....
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    MAD!!!

    Hey guys... What do you all do when you just wake up on the wrong side of the bed and you just feel like $h!t? Doesn't happen too often with me but when it does I can't find a place for myself. I feel like I want to tear myself right out of my skin. I'm mad and angry at EVERYTHING. Itell...
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    Now it's the ex wife!!

    This is in addition o all the other stuff I have going on with my ex girlfriend. You can read about that under Ex Girlfriend Reemergence Blues in the Mature Man subforum if you like. A little background. I was married for eight years. Dare I say they were horrible. I was drunk and on drugs...
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    Red Pill Apocalypse

    You know, I look at the world through the lens of the red pill. I see a lot of blue pill guys at work: married, middle aged, laughing like idiots, talking with all the middle aged women abou the stupid fvcking television shows they watch. I see young guys chasing women and the women with their...
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    ex-girlfrien reemergence blues

    Gents! I had originally posted this under health and fitness. I moved it here at @ubercat suggestion. Kind of long. Suggestions, disparagements, advice, opinions appreciated. Anyway.... I have a six year old son who is the world to me. Fact, the breakup between myself and his mom is what...
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    Starting over

    This is just to record a crawling away from a sh!tty situation I'm in. You can read the thread "Rebuilding Frame" in the Mature Man section I you're interested. I'd like to thank @Reykhel @ubercat @dustmuffin and the others who offered advice or read the thread. Anyway, this is the beginning of...
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    Rebuilding frame

    Gentlemen, It's been a while since I've posted here. I find myself in a very dark place. Summary: I found sosuave, probably like a lot of guys, after a sh!tty breakup. Anyway, this was about four years ago. I internalized a lot of what I read and I pulled myself back together. I was doing okay...
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    new plate

    Gents, valued advice appreciated. Had a date scheduled for Monday. She cancels but wants to reschedule. I say ok, how bout Thursday. She gets back to me and wanrs to meet Friday. Should i just say the hell with her?
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    Strippers

    Anyone ever get a private dance with a stripper? Thinking about doing this. What's your take on it? Rip off? Too skanky? At risk for disease? Worth it? Some of these chicks are cute, but I'm leeery about disease and parting with $100 for a bj. I also don't believe this sets a good example...
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    massage

    What does everyone think of massage parlors? A friend of mine (really, it's not me) raves about them. The reason being that you can get off without having to deal with any of the bullsh!t. Though he says it can get expensive. I personally wouldn't do this because of disease and cops. Though...
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    Post-flake text

    Gents, had a date lined up but she cancelled through text. Said something about getting together later on during the week. I haven't answered her yet, but I'm thinking of texting her something like: "The way I see it, for cancelling you owe me a date, date-type date. Flowers, dinner, a...
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    Sh!t test or shove off? BPD or brush off?

    Gents: Met this one on Saturday. Hit it off great. We both seemed really into one another. I get her number, set up a date for Thursday. She texts me Sunday morning, Monday morning. Nothing wild. Just hi, good morning. I figure i'd be nice and text her yesterday. No response. Its like she...
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    Cologne

    Anyone ever buy cologne from Amazon? I've read good and bad reviews. Mostly that the scent dissipates within the hour. Just curious as to others' experience. If not Amazon, where online would you recommend, if online at all? Thanks
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    OK Cupid weirdness

    Yeah, probably self evident. Curious to what others think of this. I e-mailed this one on Thursday night. She answers me on Friday and on Friday night we exchange a few e-mails. I kept escalating things and she seemed receptive. I asked her if she'd like to meet for a drink and she says she'd...
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    Snacks

    Gents I landed a new job where you can't eat lunch at your desk. Rather, you can eat lunch at your desk provided you're off the clock. I'd rather talk a walk or go outside on my lunch. Never worked at a place where they didn't let you eat lunch while working. However, they do allow you to eat...
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