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    Improving and Dealing With PE?

    I've had a lifelong problem with PE and I'm wondering if anyone has overcome a similar problem and seen better results. I've never apologized about cvming quickly but I've been wondering if it might be beneficial to open up about it to a girl I've been getting serious with. I'm not talking about...
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    prison dynamics in the workplace

    I know this is long but I need some advice and I know some of you have experience in conquering workplace dynamics. The summary is that I've got a few coworkers trying to play me by pretending to befriend me because they think I'm stupid and easy to push around. The problem is it's starting to...
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    Harassed by woman at work

    Is it ever worth it to report a female coworker to a manager? It seems so whiny and trivial to think about a man complaining to his manager about a female coworker, and it also seems pointless knowing there won’t be any action taken against her. Actually, it will end up being counter productive...
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    I Messed Up Texting Before First Date - What Should I Do?

    I met a girl at a party, and by the end of the night she sucked my ****. She wanted sex but I told her no (i don't know why). I intended to turn the one night stand into a multiple night stand, so I texted her a few days later saying we should get together for drinks. She agreed, I set a day...
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    I Need Help At Work

    I know there are a lot of people on here with good jobs, and in high positions, but i'm not one of those people. I work at a restaurant, with almost all female co-workers, and female managers. I've only had the job for three weeks, and still have another month before my "probation period" is...
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    What To Do When You Have Nothing.

    I am 24 years old, and decided tonight was my last night at my job. I keep getting less hours because my managers don't fire people, just give them one or two hours a week and increase workload so they eventually quit. I am broke, and have bills to pay, but at least I live with my parents so I...
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    She can't hang out until "probably" next week

    And I know what that implies. She says she can't hang out until "probably next week" because her friend is coming to visit her. Her and I were just getting things started, but everything was going really good. I feel like she's now saying she isn't interested, but at the same time she really...
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    Out of the cycle

    It's been a little over a year since the end of my oneitis relationship, when I discovered SS. Looking back on the year I have learned so much, and feel like a better man than I've ever been. Yes, I've spent a ton of time online and reading stuff like therationalmale but at the same time, it's...
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    really interesting documentary about lonely guys

    Here is a short documentary someone made about a bunch of virgins and guys who can't get any girls. What's interesting is that it shows both sides of the "frustrated virgin" chart: the man who believes, and waits, for his "one true love" and the disgruntled "red pill" PUA type of guy. Both are...
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    unsure how to deal with her friends

    i'll keep it as short as i can. i've been seeing this plate for two or three months now. she's 21 and going to school in a college town. that makes it very convenient to crash at her place since i can go to parties, meet other girls but don't have to worry about where i'm gonna sleep if things...
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    Dieting

    I read the stuff in the archive, and i've been reading a lot online already, I just can't figure out how to approach dieting. What stresses me out is counting calories and protein and all that. I don't eat a lot in general. Most days I could be fine on 1000 calories or even less. Sometimes...
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    How to reject a girl in your circle

    Pretty much what the title says. I have a few "circles" of friends, and i try not to mix them together. One circle has the guys i grew up with and like hanging out with. The rest are pretty much just for getting girls. not sure if that's messed up, but whatever. My guy friends aren't even...
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    What would you do to me?

    Girls always drop that line when things are getting hot. I may say something like "damn I can't wait to get you alone" and there's the response "what would you do to me?" It's not that Im shy or anything, I just don't get what to say. I usually just ignore the question because all I can think...
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    ONS - Should I try for more?

    I went to a party Friday. It was pretty lame but it didn't stop me from attempting some game on 2 girls. Girl 1 didn't pan out, but girl 2 was really into me. I'll spare the details but after some making out on the dance floor I hopped someones fence and we did some stuff in a random persons...
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    Rate My Approach

    I do great at parties, concerts and social events, but i've never been able to walk up to a girl in a random location and get her number. I've been wanting to change that. Last night I decided it was time, and i told myself that i would flirt with someone if i thought they were hot. Since i...
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    friend getting played

    A good friend of mine got broken up with recently. The girl told him "you're too good for me," so of course he is trying to win her back. We all know that know that any excuse is irrelevant, when a girl breaks up with you. NC her, and that's that, He doesn't see that he's been friendzoned...
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    made out with female friend

    sup sosuave. i need some advice. Last night this female friend of mine from high school hit me up and said to come to her (college) graduation party. we haven't really hung out in a long time, and i was hoping there would be other girls i could meet at the party. unfortunately there wasn't...
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