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    The Alpha Male Myth!

    The Question: Does anyone here still believe that tired old Darwinism crap? You know, the whole "Alpha Male" stuff, about how Mr. ToughGuy gets all the women, and those he doesn't get just settle for someone else? From my experience I think that all of this Alpha Male bullsh*t is just...
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    Ignoring You: A Possible Interest Sign?

    This is yet another shining example of the perplexities of attraction, and more proof that a man should not wait for "signs of interest": Ever had this happen to you: you meet a new girl in a group setting and she seems to ignore you. She never looks in your eyes. When you are introduced...
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    That Which Makes Them "Chumps"

    AFC. Three simple letters: Another Frustrated Chump. But what do these words really mean? Another: one more of that which someone already has; an extra, an unneeded; something that which is not unique. Another, in essence, symbolizes someone that is boring. A robot. A totally...
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    You Can Always Walk Away...

    It is a big world. You are free to go anywhere you want. Other places have different people, different hangouts, different events. There are people everywhere. Not to put this in a "nasty" way but, people are expendable. You should never mold yourself to others. If people have a problem...
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    Be Cool.

    One thing that never fails to seperate the "boys" from the "men" is composure. A man keeps a certain composure at all times, he is not phased by anything. He beomes the rock that women and children lean on during troubled times. Once upon a time... His girlfriend gets pissed at him for...
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    Fear

    Fear. It is our worst enemy. It is the monster that prevents us from participating in the activities that we really want to do. It is the feeling that stops us when we approach that HB, the feeling that keeps us from 'stepping up' and challenging the guy that is 'screwing with us'. But…is...
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    Change Yourself!

    The Power of Self-Image The best attitude to have is the one where you will constantly change yourself and never remain static. This attitude is great if you have many faults. Skinny? Great. Change yourself to be a bodybuilder, make it your life's goal. It will give you something...
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    The Reciprocation Principle

    Do not worry about your problems with women at all. Focus on maintaining a happy persona. Personality gives away health more than anything else. (And all you evolutionists know that health=better reproductive potential) All people are attracted to fun, happy personalities. (Why do you...
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    Philosophy, Who Needs It?

    During the time from when we were born to the present, people have always given us advice pertaining to our life. Parents, teachers, and friends have tried to inform us what the correct way of action is. It is a search for the best philosophy, the most expedient course of action. All this...
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    Social Boundaries

    What is the most influential element on the way humans interact? Social boundaries! People are mainly concerned with thier appearance in the eyes of others. It is an obsession. Why does the girl turn you down when you flat out offer sex? Social Boundaries! She does not want to get...
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    A Different Kind of Confidence

    Ah, confidence, the seemingly magical beast that will enhance your life for the better. But beware! At its best confidence is a self-love that empowers you to do things that you could never before imagine, at its worst it is a stubbornness that transforms your life into a downward spiral of...
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    Don't Be Tempted!

    When I get flustered with girls, it is usually in a situation where the girl (cute of course) is giving high interest signs like proximity, laughing at my dumb jokes, moving around a lot, getting close, smiling etc. and I am obviously interested in her—of course I am because I am a horny bastard...
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    Stop Being Perfect

    Soon after absorbing the material on this site I received an incredible influx of confidence. For the first few months I felt like such an incredible pimp. :cool: Girls were flirting with me everywhere I went (let them flirt, I don't have the time for them), I started up conversations whenever...
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    Random thoughts on how to live…

    One important thing to remember is that you are not a loser because you failed with women; you are a loser because you gave up your power and your control to them. Do not give up your confidence, dominance, and control to a bytch-shield—they do this on purpose to weed out all the weak men...
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    The Ideal Attitude

    This is the ideal attitude to have, with this attitude you will never have any real problems with yourself: I am one crazy mutherphucker, I do weird impulsive shyt when I want to and nobody can tell me otherwise. I can analyze shyt sometimes, but most of the time I don't think before doing...
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    How Much Can You Withstand?

    One thing that I have noticed in the transition from AFC to DJ is the limitations of my own mind within social situations. My mind attempts to set boundaries on how I act. For example, take charisma. If you are a charismatic and charming person, you naturally charm people; you say and do...
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