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  1. The Accountant

    I need some motivation

    While I was an indoctrinated AFC, I constantly chased my one itis. I was infatuated with the idea of having an amazing woman in my life. But to no surprise, I never got one. Nor did I even get close. Now that I have changed my ways, gone on some dates, danced, kissed, everything but fvcked, I...
  2. The Accountant

    Our need to own and protect

    I've read that we as men tend to claim what we want as ours, and desire to protect it as an innate need. Saw that in myself today, some guy was trying to flirt with one of my plates and was just annoying her while she was trying to study. I didn't do anything because of the circumstance but I...
  3. The Accountant

    Society hates the DJ

    Ever since I've adopted the DJ mindset and attitude, I have gotten levels of hate from everyone but my plates that are higher than when I was a blabbering political activist. I've been accused of sexual assault for a kiss close, been called a manipulator that plays mind games for flirting, and...
  4. The Accountant

    Do I need to worry about becoming a manipulative man *****?

    Had a long conversation with a girl from before I became any sort of DJ today. The story with her is that I took a liking to her and asked her to leave her bf for me. She said no. But according to her, I toyed with her emotions and manipulated her. When that was happening, months ago, she told...
  5. The Accountant

    I don't give a fvck about getting laid

    I'm still a virgin, have had multiple chances to escalate and have sex, have had girls hint at it, but I simply do not give a **** so I never do. And it makes me not sexual enough around women. I'm still in HS, and just don't want to be sleeping around. I would definitely bang a girlfriend, but...
  6. The Accountant

    How to proceed after failed kiss and shared trauma?

    Well, I can say that this was a wild ride, pun intended. Went out to get ice cream with a girl who's had high interest in me for a while, and who left her relationship a few weeks ago. Her relationship was on the rocks for a while, and at one point while they were together she told me she was in...
  7. The Accountant

    I've got mommy issues and want to finally fix myself

    I've gone my entire life without a real mother figure. My dad knows this, and has done his best throughout the years but I'm afraid he couldn't truly solve it. I don't really know what effect this has had on me, but I'll try to describe it the best I can. I have always struggled with women. I...
  8. The Accountant

    What to do when you get "mushy"?

    Went to eat and see a play this weekend, a friend wanted to come along so I let her. I think she's hot but I've never really cared for her. She's been begging for my attention for months, but after going out, talking and seeing a play I'm now "mushy" about her. Starting to think she's amazing...
  9. The Accountant

    Taken girls who chase

    Still in HS. Been working on becoming a DJ for the past 6 months and my mindset has almost completely changed. But there's one issue. Every girl I'd consider is taken. Every single one. Switched schools this year to one of those public "charter schools" where all the smart kids hang. I fit...
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