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  1. T

    Freedom vs. Building Wealth

    What is freedom, what is wealth and how can you be poor and free or wealthy and free? Both terms are relative, depending on your definition. F.e. " wealthy is not the one with a lot of money but the one with few needs" or "how much does freedom cost?" Would, spending a lot of money to pay for...
  2. SW15

    Got a job and most of my co-workers are hot girls. How would I go about gaming? (Continued)

    Most men working white collar jobs have been following the "don't poop where you eat" advice for at least 20-25 years. Fewer men have been starting romantic interactions at work since the 1990s. A lot of that trend has been the result of changes in the white collar environment. Sexual...
  3. O

    Freedom vs. Building Wealth

    You certainly don't have to slave away for 30-40 years if you are financially responsible and invest properly. People who work their whole lives have poor spending habits. They are idiots let's be honest.
  4. holidayad_

    Freedom vs. Building Wealth

    I've been wrestling with this dilemma: freedom versus building something solid in life. During and some years after college, the path seemed clear - grind hard, stack cash, build assets. The classic blueprint. But increasingly I question the logic of killing yourself for decades in such an...
  5. SW15

    Got a job and most of my co-workers are hot girls. How would I go about gaming? (Continued)

    I do not. I didn't know bartending had that sort of longevity. Waiting tables, bussing tables, fast food, and store level retail have all been known for short term work durations. I have heard of male and female bartenders having sex with each other and female bartenders having sex with...
  6. B

    Got a job and most of my co-workers are hot girls. How would I go about gaming? (Continued)

    STRONGLY disagree with that. Do you know how much money bartenders make on a decent weekend? They do NOT want to give up their shifts. The bartenders at the college bars on the strip where I've been frequenting are the same bartenders as when I went to school there. Their top earner makes my...
  7. Travel memoir21

    Roll Call....How did you guys spend your Saturday night?

    Okay guys for Saturday, I took my dog for a walk for a walk in the Park, sat down and chilled on the bench and chatted up some Mormon American Missionaries from the States lol. Then I went home, took a cold shower, did a few push ups and headed on over to a Coffee shop bought my Laptop with me...
  8. D

    How much do looks matter

    Looks do matter a lot, at least 50% of her initial opinion on you is based on how you look though you can definitely compensate via game, money, status. I'm not the best looking but I'm at least above average, like a 7-8, one example is the feminists in my college, they forgive me A LOT for...
  9. SW15

    Frustrated Bald&FaceCel explains "The Reality Of Why Everyone is Single Now"

    Why are you still talking about this at roughly at age 60? I think that people underestimate how some bad experiences earlier in life can have a long tail effect. It's clear that it impacted you. I still the worst overall thing going for you was the height issue. The height issue + all-boys...
  10. MatureDJ

    Frustrated Bald&FaceCel explains "The Reality Of Why Everyone is Single Now"

    And try getting a Social Circle going to an all-boys high-school and then college of engineering. :mad: :mad:
  11. SW15

    Why Beta Bux can have the best of both worlds

    My dad worked many hours. He was a competent worker. He wasn't around long enough to say a lot of silly things about romantic relationships. However, there were numerous occasions where he did say things that could best be summarized as "happy wife, happy life" kind of things. That was not...
  12. BeExcellent

    Why Beta Bux can have the best of both worlds

    I agree with you. "Beta" in the RP parlance is transactional at its core. You do A to obtain B. The classic example is a man's resources for a woman's sex and companionship but often such an exchange is bereft of real sexual desire and therefore such interactions are inherently phony and...
  13. SW15

    Why Beta Bux can have the best of both worlds

    In the United States' culture (and likely the cultures of other Western nations), there are too many echo chambers and not enough productive discussions with differences of opinions. I've seen this increase over the last 30 years. The culture at large needs more conversations with a respectful...
  14. SW15

    What do you guys think of Askmen.com?

    I remember reading some article off of it in the early 2000s when I first got into seduction content. I remember reading Doc Love and someone called "The Player" in that era. I was also reading some David DeAngelo in those days. I wish I had heard of Mystery during my college years (2001-2005)...
  15. SW15

    Frustrated Bald&FaceCel explains "The Reality Of Why Everyone is Single Now"

    I didn't watch that much of it when initially posted. Very unimpressive. That's the kind of thing that shouldn't be notable in any way in 2025. A quality seducer around his age would have barely remembered this. It is likely this guy has dwelled on that interaction for the past 14 years...
  16. Solomon

    Frustrated Bald&FaceCel explains "The Reality Of Why Everyone is Single Now"

    Not sure if you watched the video but the guy goes through his dating experience 1 Had 1 Girlfriend in college (2010-2011) who wanted to open the relationship up and he didn't(his only girlfriend ever) 2. 5 Hookups in his life (I got 5 different Hookups in one month last year, not bragging) 3...
  17. SW15

    Frustrated Bald&FaceCel explains "The Reality Of Why Everyone is Single Now"

    I agree with this. The most in-demand White men I've seen in the mating market in the USA cities where I have lived are ones with lighter skin, somewhat lighter hair, and more Northern European ancestry. The best thing about having Nordic ancestry in a major USA city is height. Given the...
  18. SW15

    Why Beta Bux can have the best of both worlds

    A never married person can observe marriages and see how lousy they often are. Many never marrieds observe marriages and even some longer term non-marital LTRs and make the decision that they'd like to go a different direction. I watched one of my grandfathers die from cancer during my college...
  19. N

    Is the girl interested in me or what?

    So my last question. I know you are against Instagram for these things(I still don't quite understand, there are many people around me who met here. I'm not talking about writing to someone from 0, I'm talking about starting a conversation with someone I know. I guess I'm really bad after...
  20. B

    Is the girl interested in me or what?

    I guarantee you that you haven't been with enough women to know whether THIS one is special. The answer is: probably not. Very few women are. Just as very few people are special, or exceptional, in any way. Only if you prefer wasting your time wondering whether a girl likes you and constantly...
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