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    How do you initiate hand-holding with a girl?

    I wanna hold hands with this girl while we're walking, but I'm not sure how to go about doing it. I touch her on the shoulder / arm constantly while we're walking, and she usually laughs and smiles everytime I touch her, but I'm not sure how to transition from this to holding hands, which...
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    Need Advice on Kino'ing this Girl

    Is kino expected on the first date? I've been out with this girl once. We went to dinner and the movies, but what sucked about these places was that they didn't lend any opportunity for kino whatsoever. And now i'm clueless as to where I could take her next. I know I could take her for ice...
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    Sick and tired of competing for girls

    I'm tired of being in a situation as a college freshman where it feels like a competition between me and several other guys to get the attention of a girls. For example, if it's 4 of us guys eating dinner with 4 girls in the cafeteria, it always seems to turn into a contest to see which guy can...
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    College Game Scenario: Need Help

    I'm gonna pose a scenario that I find myself in VERY frequently and need advice on. You initiate a convo with an HB sitting near you in a large lecture room, and you hit it off quite well--she's laughing, good vibes, etc. The next day you arrive to the same class and spot her sitting in a...
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    Is this kind of persistence good or bad??

    Recently, I found this in a dating book I've read, and I want to know if this advice is good or harmful: "With women, you will be a much happier man if you just keep initiating; don't take anything a woman does personally. A case in point: a hot woman will never ask you out and will rarely...
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    Building Confidence for Approaching Groups

    As someone with only a week of sarging experience under my belt, I'm wondering how one gathers the confidence to approach groups of 2 or more girls [no guys]. I'm 18 and I usually go solo to approach girls at the beach, but my main problem is chicks are ALWAYS with their friends, family, or...
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    How do you deal with the slutty type of girls??

    I'm sick and tired of this certain type of girl. You know, the type that approaches YOU, giving you massive IOI's both verbally and physically for what seems like not very much gaming on your behalf. We're talking the REAL touchy and bold type. And keep in mind we're talking high school, and...
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    Too Scared to Kino...Need Advice!

    Hey guys here's my deal. I'm a relatively popular guy with the chicks at my high school, because I'm pretty good with conversation and stories. But when it comes to getting any individual girl as my girlfriend, I never succeed because I just CAN'T get myself to initiate any kino, even when the...
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    How to Improve Your Social Skills

    I was wondering from you skilled PUA's what the BEST way is for me (high school senior) to improve my game in the following ways: 1. Developing the social skills to the point where I can improv conversations and maintain them for long periods of time with strangers 2. Reducing shyness 3...
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    Turning Attraction into GF's

    I find I'm constantly in the same situation where chicks in my high school show clear IOI's towards me (usually through either directly stating it or through silly things such as writing "I love jester090" in my notebooks, etc), but I never express any interest back towards them because I have...
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