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Week 16 Update (Bar as a social scene) Quick ejection to avoid rejection. That’s what I do. What am I so afraid of? What will happen if I stay and let the girl rip me apart? It’s the end of the night and I am pretty drunk and doing the dance floor walk through with a friend. I see a...

Week 15 Update (The intern) Sometimes I wonder if the whole point of these posts will just be to serve as a warning to the people who come after me. Like a dead body in the road telling travelers not to take the path because it is a dead end. I guess I can take some comfort in the idea that...

I made new guy friends and it helped me out with the women a ton. I never figured out how to make friends and all my friends are from High School. I'm 29! Does anyone know where a good place to meet and make new guy friends would be?

Week 15 Update (Mystery and Style) This week I was going to come up with a plan to make more friends, meet women outside of clubs, and come up with the perfect opening statement to girls in the club. Instead I end up spending hours on the sosuave forum. I keep checking it over and over. It...

Week 14 Update (Vacation) I am back from vacation. I had a great time. I didn’t hook up with any vacation girls. For the first time I did run into a girl who returned eye contact with me. The night has just started, I am standing on the edge of the dance floor with my friends and while I...

How do I play fight with a girl? Sometimes I can see that the girl seems to want to, but I freeze up and have no idea what to do. For example if I am sitting on a couch watching TV with a girl what should I do? I'm pretty much clueless so any advice would be helpful.

Week 13 Update (Return of Oneitis) How am I going to get the 8+ girls indeed? Last week I was watching these two pretty girls drink beer in their car before we went into the club. They were probably 23. At 23 I was afraid to go into the city and here they are unafraid and getting drunk in a...

Week 12 Update Friday: I go out to a bar with my old friends. I decide to dress down to match them because I’m getting a strong vibe that they think I have sold out and become shallow. I wore a blue sweatshirt and blue jeans. The sweatshirt was really close to my jeans in color so I felt...

Week 11 Update When I walk I make sure to move my arms in big movements, but if something distracts me my arms stop moving and I start walking like a robot again. I read about half of player Player_Supreme’s posts. I was shocked to find out this guy was 44. Also I loved his story about the...

Week 10 Update Friday: I hang out with one of my old friends. He doesn’t want to go out to the bars so in the end we just go bowling. I didn’t even want to hang out with him, but it has been a while and I don’t want to blow him off just because I have become girl crazy. It did suck though...

Week 9 Update Tuesday: My college friend invites me to a get together at her apartment. I think it is wrong to hang out with them. I’m to old to be hanging out on a college campus, but I am desperate and will try anything so I say yes. I get there and it is five girls and me. There are no...

Week 8 Update I go out Friday, but one of the guys we are out with drinks to much and gets sick in the bar! We have to leave early and the night is over before it even begin. Then Saturday comes around and I don't even go out. With Thanksgiving coming up I'm not even sure that the bar scene...

Week 7 Update Famous Virgins Isaac Newton Lewis Carroll J Edgar Hoover I’m pretty sure that all the fame in the world after your dead doesn’t make up for never hooking up in life. I dreamed about Oneitis two nights in a row. They were weird dreams where she was more successful then...

Week 5 and 6 Update I was on a business trip for week 5 weekend in some middle of nowhere town. I was trying to hit on a waitress just so I would have a sense that I made some progress. She dropped a cup and I told her that I just wanted her to know I saw it and I thought it was pretty funny...

Week 4 Update I got the mole on my back removed. I didn’t even use insurance. 75 dollars. It was a big mole and I always have been self conscious to take off my shirt because of it and now it is gone. Friday: Had my college friend over. Asked her to bring her roommate. Her roommate was...

I used to have panic attacks too. I read a book on them and they said that not eating enough food can cause some sort of insulin shortage and can cause them. My first panic attack happened when I was on a crash diet were I only ate one meal a day. So I believe it. I did a quick google and...

Week 3 Update So it has been 21 days. To you guys who said I should bootcamp and stop chasing woman, I can’t I am just too desperate. I joined a gym this week. There is this guy who I call the Mayor of Gym town. Every time I go to the gym he is there and he talks to everyone. He isn’t...

WEEK 2 UPDATE I called Oneitis. She couldn’t get off the phone fast enough. I’ve escaped the friend zone and gone to the “I don’t ever want to talk to you again zone”. I wasted so much time chasing her it sucks. Also I found out through a mutual friend that she just started hanging out with...

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Update I always thought girls you meet in bars were the wrong type of girls. Also I've always thought that if you meet a girl on the street who knows nothing about you and she agreed to go out with you, then she must be desperate or there is something wrong with her. Friday: I tried to...