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    I am the dumper...now I want him back!

    Thanks all...I modified it...made it more to the point, changed to lower case and I clicked the send button before I changed my mind. Just did it 2 minutes ago. Wish me luck that it is well received. Thanks.
  2. M

    I am the dumper...now I want him back!

    Is this better afk? thanks anyway...i'll ensure there are no caps in my email...is that a pet peeve or something?
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    I am the dumper...now I want him back!

    And then Kevin, he would probably hurt my feelings by not giving me a chance to apologize by probably saying stupid...and the cycle will go on and on. I've modified the letter...and I'm gonna send it as soon as I've had a few drinks. Yea email is for the weak...but I am weak. I'll apologize...
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    time sensitive: the confused ex, please help

    Iqqi...and you had the nerve to respond to my post that I was bull****ting? Oh give me a break! What a hypocrite you are!
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    I am the dumper...now I want him back!

    It may seem like a half assed apology, but I can't represent like I'm sorry for being upset that he hurt my feellings. I'm not sorry for calling him out on that....that is, that he hurt my feelings and what he did to me was not nice. I don't think that is half-assed. I'm not sorry for that...
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    I am the dumper...now I want him back!

    you know you guys are a total bunch of idiots and its amazing you get any women at all...and for all those who think I should go to cosmo...tough!! I'm here deal with it? My email is sheisty? Yea whatever!!! Iqqi you should be a psychic because you could obviously read minds. I can only...
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    Out of nowhere I'm getting a feeling to call my ex

    you know what I think Dillin!!! Call her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do it for me atleast!!! Check my PM message. I don't know, you know I'm looking for the same answers as you do!! You probably simply just miss her, want to bury the hatchet and a little scared to do it. Don't just walk away.
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    Reason i'm not confident around women

    Hi 2 much, I'm female...and I can tell you that it doesn't matter whether you are circumcised or not...as long as you're clean that's all we women care about, and that applies to cut and uncut. Why is this such an issue for you? Is it from your upbringing and friends that you think this...
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    I am the dumper...now I want him back!

    Well, this is the email I was going to send, but now I've decided against it because of what all the guys here think...I'll just let sleeping dogs lie... I AM SORRY FOR WHAT I SAID TO YOU…IT WAS VERY MEAN & NOT VERY NICE TO SAY LET US JUST GO BACK TO NOT KNOWING WHO THE OTHER IS & NO IT...
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    I am the dumper...now I want him back!

    Thanks to everyone who responded. I don't think I'm a bad person, it's just that based on past love experiences I've been hurt pretty badly and I try to protect my feelings. Its sort of like you keep trying, trying with the hopes that you will not get hurt and then bam you're hurt. I honestly...
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    I am the dumper...now I want him back!

    travelling... I can honestly say I wasn't seeing anyone else. Honestly, wasn't and still not. This guy persued me and I said to him that I wanted a relationship, I hung around a while, while he sort of hinted he also wanted a relationship but didn't really make any moves towards that. I...
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    I am the dumper...now I want him back!

    I guess I do want him back. I don't very well in relationships...I run whenever I feel I'm about to be hurt. Its a reflex, I just end things hastily without just backing off assessing how I feel then coming back to it. Its a trait I'm trying to work on. I said some things that I think would...
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    I am the dumper...now I want him back!

    Okay, here it is. I dumped him because he wasn't showing me the kind of attention I wanted. He knew what I wanted. So I told him to never ever call or email me again. I also said some mean things by email. Now he was wrong in alot of things, so this is not about forgiving those things. I...
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    Should a DJ ever apologize or explain his behaviour?

    Ok Allan, I have to give you this one. You were justified in acting the way you did, and after hearing all the facts, I don't think she deserves an apology. The number one key thing here is that she has a boyfriend, and to top that off they live together. Nuff said. You didn't and don't...
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    Should a DJ ever apologize or explain his behaviour?

    someone please explain to me Allan, Please explain to me why do you guys do things that you know will make the girl upset...hurt her feelings, don't apologize or try to make amends in no way, shape or form, then wonder whether or not you were harsh. You were harsh...so totally harsh. Let...
  16. M

    Should a DJ ever apologize or explain his behaviour?

    I meant she should have been a bigger person to accept your apology in the last paragraph of my post...I need to edit before I click the send button...sorry.
  17. M

    Should a DJ ever apologize or explain his behaviour?

    This is where the difficulty lies. In all honesty...leaving a message on her answering machine apologizing now will seem a bit stalkerish. I would think it was weird. Certainly one and a half weeks isn't a long time. You need to speak to her directly. Call her at work...ask her how she is...
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    Should a DJ ever apologize or explain his behaviour?

    Mecca don't you see? Don't you see? Here it is you're calling her making plans to do stuff, and not addressing the misunderstanding /issue that is unspoken between you two that was as you say your fault. She may agree to you making plans etcetera, but she isn't going to come out and say...'so...
  19. M

    Should a DJ ever apologize or explain his behaviour?

    Mecca I meant you will be guilty without being proven innocent
  20. M

    Should a DJ ever apologize or explain his behaviour?

    Well you see that's sort of tricky....would you be able to set things up so that you ran into her? Only thing there is, if I were her I would think...'so if he hadn't ran into me, would he have at all tried to apologize?' Us women are like that. We overanalyze to a tee. I agree though that...
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