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...later in life who had attended the all-girls school in that area too. That's social circle game. How did he age into being desirable? College degree and decent paying job? Once again, this seems like an agreeable beta male with height who didn't relocate far in life post high school...

...Which could explain why I clicked better with blondie than I did with my own grade's girls. The social/emotional immaturity was a problem in college too, as my 20 year old self was 14-15 on the inside. And yeah, I'm aware plenty of White backsides are nice. Stereotype suggests otherwise...

...of Millennial and Gen Z women. This could be true globally but I question this idea in the United States, especially in big cities. Since college graduation, I have been in USA big cities so I've seen some of the worst female behaviors. This might have skewed my perspective. Aging Millennial...

This is the only place I disagree with Doc Love, but it is a semantic disagreement. He says a woman has to have at least 50% interest in a man to have a shot. I say that a woman has to be 'attracted' to a man to give him a shot. He doesn't separate attraction from interest: I do. His system...

...term interactions where women did lose interest, but not as fast as it seems with you. He also didn't rely on tech methods to meet women in college. His current relationship has lasted nearly 10 years. That's good on retention. I haven't seen him in person since before his current...

...experience talking to girls in high school (including the girl this thread is about). I might have not done as well with the opposite sex in college, even through tech methods, if I went to an all-male high school. With all the nice backsides I saw just from walking through the hallway in...

That's an interesting rule (to refrain from replying to messages on the weekend). Even if you weren't tied to the computer at all times, the weekend tends to be when folks have more free time (in other words, they could reply to a message here and there on the weekend, yet still have a life)...

...male in a decent relationship getting regular sex. Yes, this is all true. This is also a good point. I read Doc Love during my 2001-2005 college days. His main concept was interest levels (ILs). He always expressed IL in a percentage basis, and he thought it was important to keep above a...

...options by the standards of that day. In 1987-1997, a woman's options would have been more dependent upon her day-to-day living routine. Her college campus (if attending college), the frequency of her bar attendance (after age 21), the size of the city where she lived, and her real life...

...had a real life and weren't a dork tied to a computer. That classmate did go to parties regularly. He and I were even at some of the same college parties. He was going to the bars a lot in his 20s before finding a woman on a dating app in his 30s that became his wife. He put up an above...

...I didn't yet), which meant I could pretty much communicate with a woman on Craigslist at any time (whereas in 2001-05, she'd need to physically be on her computer) The fact I never attended a college party could at least partially explain the difference between your autist classmate and myself.

I think settings with alcohol helped him. I know of some college parties where he got laid when he had been drinking and the woman had been drinking as well. He did bar approaching for many years once he turned 21. He did eventually move to swipe apps when swipe apps were invented. I was...

...being an autist (I myself am in the same place as him on the spectrum; I was told by a professional I have Asperger's back when they still made the distinction) Doing the math of the time period when you were in college, I don't think Craigslist casual sex (my college method) was popular yet.

...males fail with this. The natural tendency for men is to overrate signals. High school is a bit of a bubble in the mating environment. College (also a bubble environment) only somewhat resembles it. The mating environment that most working age, post schooling men face isn't one that...

...the autism spectrum, which is a major issue for males in "money, muscle, and game", particularly the game component of that. When I was in college, I knew a guy who was diagnosed as Asperger's back during his childhood in the 1990s. In the 1990s-2000s, Asperger's was a separate diagnosis...

This is true. I think this has gotten more common in the last 30 years with more competitive college admissions and more of a parental focus on building a list of activities that impresses college admissions officers. High school social standing doesn't matter as much on a college campus...

...building experience with females in Middle & High School for other priorities. We were sold this myth that HS is BS and that getting laid in college is easy for the average men when it is hard mode for any guy with little to no experience. Not only do you miss important rites of passages...

...to shoot his shot and he didn't do it story from his school years. This usually happens by the end of high school. For those who go on to college, they will likely encounter this in community college or a 4 year university if this hasn't happened to them in high school. I have heard of...

Your example doesn't qualify based on numerous reasons. 1. It is unknown if she actually would have gone out on a date with you. Even if she had gone out on a date with you, the whole interaction might have been 1-2 sexless dates and no LTR. You also likely overrated her signals. It's common...

...of my confidence, I wouldn't have grown up to be so timid about shooting my shot? There's no telling how many opportunities I've missed in college/post-college because I was afraid to shoot my shot. Your story is certainly a story that could change a guy (in my opinion, you should have...