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    How to proceed in a relationship with a bpd

    I'm not a pathological narcissist but I'm kind of up there. I do not get crazy when supply is cut I take a step back and create a game plan where I try to put myself in their shoes since bpds have the same qualities as npds and I am also atuned to behaviors and can feel out situations. I know...
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    How to proceed in a relationship with a bpd

    I actually have strong narcissistic traits and therefore don't feel emotion atleast often...i have gone thru a lot before so this isn't totally new to me. She actually texted me last night but I was asleep. I have dealt with a full blown narc for 9 years now and I'm basically the last man...
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    How to proceed in a relationship with a bpd

    So not even a text saying goodnight? No initiating texts whatsoever even if I'm not asking her anything or to do anything? I know she is disordered and i let plenty slide with her..my gut says not even to text her at all like nothing..but sometimes I feel I have to say some nonsense like...
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    How to proceed in a relationship with a bpd

    How do bpd chicks react when u initiate with them? do they prefer guys that are emotionally unavailable and do not initiate with them...Do bpds wanna hear guys express feelings because I basically am numb to feelings and never really feel too much towards a person. I've heard her talk about...
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    Do you consider BPD relationships as real

    I've dealt with a narc for the last 9 years I'm her nearest and dearest now..in the beginning we did sleep together but that stopped becuase narcs do not like sex becuase it's a common thing and they always want to feel special..I think I lasted because I do have narc tendencies since I have...
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    hanging with/semi dating pornstar was asked for unprotected sex I said no sh 1t hit the fan

    Well she called and texted me 10 times this morning and I'm sitting on her bed as we speak
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    hanging with/semi dating pornstar was asked for unprotected sex I said no sh 1t hit the fan

    Well tonight I said f it and texted her to see if I was blocked or not..I said im sorry let's just say we're both sorry let's go to the gym then didn't hear anything back for an hour so I said im going...I have no clue if she's even seeing the message...I actually kind of hope she doesn't so she...
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    hanging with/semi dating pornstar was asked for unprotected sex I said no sh 1t hit the fan

    Little hard when I'm typing the whole thing on my phone
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    hanging with/semi dating pornstar was asked for unprotected sex I said no sh 1t hit the fan

    I met a narc 9 years ago who knows of this girl..with the narc I've known I endured years of mental abuse to the point where I would get on drugs and I knew I was being controlled...but I had narc traits myself and atleast nowadays I consider myself having many narc traits don't know if it's...
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    hanging with/semi dating pornstar was asked for unprotected sex I said no sh 1t hit the fan

    I'm actually kind of curious if there is any recovery from saying I got other options showing her a text telling her not to text me and calling her retarded lol..but I did send that text the next day to clarify everything and lay the blame on her..not saying I will pursue her again but I'm...
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    hanging with/semi dating pornstar was asked for unprotected sex I said no sh 1t hit the fan

    Like I said some might not believe it but I'm not some typical pathetic dude who dreams it really happens
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    hanging with/semi dating pornstar was asked for unprotected sex I said no sh 1t hit the fan

    I know she can be sweet and kind for a long amount of time but when she wants something and gets rejected she takes it real personal and the evil vile side comes out but I know from my knowledge of personality disorders it's fake it's her false persona becuase I know deep down she is very...
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    hanging with/semi dating pornstar was asked for unprotected sex I said no sh 1t hit the fan

    Yesterday we wake up and go do some stuff and go to eat...after we eat I ask her to sleep at my house becuaee I wanna be with my dog...she says ok..we get to my house she gets in bed takes off her clothes then wants to f k. I say I want a condom she then flips out saying how just becuaee she's a...
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    hanging with/semi dating pornstar was asked for unprotected sex I said no sh 1t hit the fan

    One night I have to leave her house so she gets really really shy and I say what is wrong and kind of laugh she then freaks out and says she needs her medicine becuase she's getting anxiety (she's on antidepressants and Xanax lol) obviously red flags but I knew this when I first met her. I hold...
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    hanging with/semi dating pornstar was asked for unprotected sex I said no sh 1t hit the fan

    This is probably long but somewhat of a very unique situation i know alot of you are gonna say yea right etc but this really went down. I'm not giving out their name obviously but she is known in the porn world, has won avn awards, and has a large social media following 200k+ followers etc. I...
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    Dealing with a lesbian couple

    Yea our first discussion was about how I'm not giving child support and need legal docs stating I'm never gonna be responsible which is a whole other story...it's distorting for me becuase i do like hanging with them and they probably like hanging with me I guess..also I live in a city where...
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    Dealing with a lesbian couple

    I met this lesbian couple about 3-4 months ago from tinder. Theyve been together for 6 years...Ones 23 other is 27 both cute..I'm 34.I was texting with one and she was telling me they want a guy to have sex with and eventually looking for a guy to give them kids lol..i guess they had some guy...
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