Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

Search results

  1. GetBetter

    5th annual Anti Approach Anxiety competition

    Okay so I am also following Approach Anxiety Program by GoodLookingLoser. So while doing one of the approaches it went a lil longer than getting a yes/no answer. So I would like to list it as a chit-chat on my part considering I really do not know how to converse or am I just creating it...
  2. GetBetter

    Self-Improvement Thread - Changing My Life!

    Thank you Between_The_Lines for the insight. I had read your message the same day you posted it but I didn't reply. Thank you so much! Much of what you said is what I already know through forums like ConceptArt.org I would still like to face it. And for some reason i believe that it will all...
  3. GetBetter

    5th annual Anti Approach Anxiety competition

    I am so sorry that I couldn't. I did get out, tried to find chicks but man all I saw was couples and gangs of friends. I won't mind a strike but here's what we can do: We can extend this till Thursday so that it covers a whole week? Maybe by then more would be able to complete challenge.
  4. GetBetter

    5th annual Anti Approach Anxiety competition

    So after that - 1. I went back to the city where I went to study for 6 months - especially to meet my teacher and celebrate valentine. So I for the first time in all the time there actually talked for long time; I used to just try to escape such situations. 2. On valentine's day I opened a...
  5. GetBetter

    5th annual Anti Approach Anxiety competition

    Talked to two guys in my dance class. I initiated. Still won't consider them as approaches. Only girls will be counted. Though there are lots of girls and some are giving me IoIs I had mo courage to talk. Had some inner game issues. Feeling better now and ready to approach!
  6. GetBetter

    5th annual Anti Approach Anxiety competition

    So when does this start? I have already begun; taking some baby steps. Talking and initiating contact with gym trainers and some other people who come to the gym. Approached 3 girls - asked for time to 1 girl, complimented another and she was smiling all the time and said thank you. The 3rd...
  7. GetBetter

    5th annual Anti Approach Anxiety competition

    This should be fun and a much needed task. I am in a LDR and I need to meet new people now. So, I would like to participate sir.
  8. GetBetter

    Self-Improvement Thread - Changing My Life!

    So 3 days ago I asked HBSarah to be my girlfriend(unsure of why). That day she was being overreactive and feeling bad, just to gain attention maybe and I asked her if she wants to be my girlfriend. She didnt clearly say yes but as I was leaving coaching she followed me outside and seemed too...
  9. GetBetter

    How do you handle Disrespect

    How do you guys handle when someone disrespects you? Not only girls but other friends in social circle? When someone disrespects me I want to just take revenge by getting violent but that's the loss of composure and not a sign of a true man, right? So do you guys just leave that person(kick out...
  10. GetBetter

    Self-Improvement Thread - Changing My Life!

    Alright, here are the goals - 1. Fix my brain - For some reasons, I am always pretty sad and depressed, for no ****ing reason; anxieties and negative thoughts clog up my mind. So first step is to fix my brain, turn it towards positivity or neutrality. (Not in the mood to type a lot). Always...
  11. GetBetter

    Self-Improvement Thread - Changing My Life!

    Yo everyone! How are you all? About me, I check SoSuave daily, just not updating my Journal. So now I am here again, updating my Journal, to give an insight on what has been happening and to ask more and more questions; oh and rant as well, as usual. Drawing : My lines have got so much...
  12. GetBetter

    What is Success?

    Okay, I know this is rather vague question, but I have been wondering for few days or maybe weeks what 'Success' actually means? From what I have learned, everyone wants success but they do not know what it actually means and hence run chasing 'money'; but that's not true success, is it? I...
  13. GetBetter

    Self-Improvement Thread - Changing My Life!

    Haven't updated in a while so thought why not update now. I won't elaborate a lot but summarize what has been going in my life. I have moved to a new city to learn drawing and painting and prepare a portfolio for colleges abroad. I have found a new college named Feng Zhu School of Design...
  14. GetBetter

    Self-Improvement Thread - Changing My Life!

    So last time I posted it was 5th May. It's end of the month yet nothing interesting to post. I'll post things that I remember though from past few days: I found a site of PUAs in India. I tried to find some PUAs in my city and surprisingly there are few but they aren't too great. I have taken...
  15. GetBetter

    Self-Improvement Thread - Changing My Life!

    @asianbboy: I didn't post it but I just saw it yet it's so difficult to hold your drives. I go crazy after the workouts, it just boosts my testosterone a lot maybe? Idk though. Anyways I just want to talk about the girl at the gym however I'll update little about rest of things: 1. 15th DVD...
  16. GetBetter

    Self-Improvement Thread - Changing My Life!

    Approach #8? @Watawata It's definitely easier said than done. My Dad especially let it all out yesterday. He explained that me being selfish is not good. And that due to it they will have to work their entire life and seeing my behaviour they are afraid that I won't even let them eat saying...
  17. GetBetter

    Self-Improvement Thread - Changing My Life!

    I am on an emotional roller coaster at the moment so this update is pretty much to record my emotional state at the moment. About the goals I set for myself: I have been going out to cold approach, I go to same place daily but there were no approachable girl. I see lots of couples though...
  18. GetBetter

    Self-Improvement Thread - Changing My Life!

    Another Approach: Missed one opportunity and then on my way going back home I stop to drink sugarcane juice. There I see a girl waiting for someone. She keeps standing and after few mins after finishing my juice I go and approach. I am not even going to describe it because it's similar to last...
  19. GetBetter

    defensiveend96 JOURNAL

    I have to congratulate you man because you seem to be at a point of self fulfillment! I be at that point every now and then. Also, about your reply on my Journal that girls notice changes in me. I didn't realize it until you said it because my main reasons for going gym are increasing social...
  20. GetBetter

    Self-Improvement Thread - Changing My Life!

    This is going to turn into an Approach Journal and thats why for now 'Journal' I am recording my today's approach into you: Vidyansh and Me get desperate to approach. We go into a Clothing Store in mall to find girls. He points to a group of girls and I end up not approaching them because I am...
Top