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I’m a grown man but still there is a critical need for personal growth. In some ways I’m my age, in other ways I’m like a 14 year old boy. When looking back it’s noticeable that growth for me is possible. I have a general streak of insecurity still for instance, but I can cold approach easily...

I'm nofap/noporn since long. It was a challenge, but definitely worth it. My d works very well. I *** when I want to, and it's absurd: it's erected after cumming, and I can go afterwards. I've only heard influencer/porn star Stirling Cooper able to do the same. Yeah, it's an emotional roller...

My main source for leads is cold approach, street game. This forenoon a girl, walking her dog, smiled and said hello. This is as good IOIs get and a perfect opportunity to talk. But I just greeted back and then continued walking past, this despite I had pondered whether to approach — I had...

Last year I drank 8 espressos or so. These days I’m a knowledge worker at an office, and so far I drink regular coffee, like most people. Coffee drinking is a sign of weakness. It’s a drug that yields dopamine, because apparently you can’t get it otherwise. And I succumb. It leads me to...

Height is as known extremely important. A man who is taller has as foundation dominance, and therefore has a different playing field than others. A friend of mine is, and he can for instance afford to use heart emojis and be very sweet, because he is taller. That’s my understanding. I’m...

I've had an orbiter or two, and said no to some potential girlfriends (their perspective). It depends on how capable as a man you are. If you're very desperate or inexperienced, then picking up someone with a diagnosis or some form of emotional/social issues might be worth it. If you're more...

I'm looking for two articles that have been posted here on SS: One was about that the chads clean up on Tinder. That is, the notch count isn't evenly distributed between men, and that therefore women share the chads That young men are resigned and have given up ambitions of studies and work...

I agree. There's a charm to being the final experience before she settles down with some dweeb.

Yeah, from my perspective too it's odd. It's as if they follow a set path and aren't curious, open for suggestions. I approach a lot of "good girls", and it's as if they can't see an alternative universe. Another possible reason is to dial down one's perception of how attractive one is, a more...

Last Saturday we met on the dance floor again. I fcked her in the evening and morning, she stayed for breakfast, and implied that if I want a girlfriend, she's available. Rapport is excellent, she initiates sitting in my lap at the buss station, leans her head against me on the bus, etc. The...

I agree. I smsed a grumpy girl "You're s3xy in a dog collar." Since then she's "spank me" etc. But carrying it out in practice is tricky. I've tried many things with the girl in this thread but it's all rejected. She also has a very authoritarian job, making it extra tricky. Yes, generally...

Yes, that was my theory initially and still is. The question is how to fix it. My other girls are submissive and appreciate dominance, while this one resists. She's a bit dominant, pushed me into the couch and rode me. I think the cause to her resistance is that she doesn't "like" me...

I have this girl that I’ve slept with twice, she slept over both nights. I’ve suggested activities twice, no answer and a polite decline. We met and meet at a social circle, a dance community. Last time I didn’t approach her due to her low initiative (she didn’t either) because there’s limits to...

Nope, seems to be a good girl. She's been in an LTR, glad and talkative, not jaded or so. It's some other block. I made out with a Swedish older woman and she said some of the same things, like stopping and saying "No, not more for you", as if sex is some kind of reward/punishment. It smells...

As we know they are everywhere and problematic. Let’s collect are collective wisdom. A good assumption is that Swedish girls are it, and I have a plate-ish who is. In bed she disconnects before she heats up, and doesn’t fully submit. She has psychologically a lock, is blocked. Some solutions...

Right. Water is wet. The (actual) Don Juan didn't read about game. What I'm saying is some men are good, while others (might) get to that point, today with the help of the game material. I did that somewhat with the help of material, and am now essentially 17 in an actual old age. Some are the...

The question is if you want to be a shrink for successful men, or be one yourself.

Confirmed. I've matched with two on Tinder this year and they're both obese. I get often complimented on my looks by peers, lift 3 times a week, got pro photos, amongst other from a film festival and social dancing. That's Tinder for me. Conclusively 1) hypergamy is real; and 2) I'm not (that)...

"Longer", which means longer than 2-3 lays. If the sex is acceptable, I would say until you hit the "we're not a match for an LTR and that's the only thing I want now."

It’s often focused on bagging fast. However I currently have a challenge with retention: The girls after one or two lays ghosts, despite suggestions from me of meeting up for non-sex activities. The great cold approacher and seducer Pancakemouse writes: With good game you can essentially land...