Search results

I think it's a boundary that flags your own insecurity and/or lack of trust which is ultimately unnecessary if the woman in question is worth anything. I don't have much more to add here, I've said what I have to say about it. I guess we'll have to agree to disagree on it.

If this is your belief then I don't see why you'd even bother with a relationship, I wouldn't. Half truth. Keep in mind that several conditions and circumstances are within your control and are your responsibility. If you're an inadequate man it shouldn't come as a surprise if she leaves. I...

If she doesn't see her male friends, are they even really friends? Even this dynamic will reveal information about what type of friends they are and why she's communicating with them. You don't have to run elaborate tests if you're relatively aware and attentive of what's going on around you...

And those men will pay the price of their laziness. Willful ignorance is a really bad idea when dealing with women.

You're missing my point. Whether she has dudes around or not doesn't change the fact that if the relationship hits a rough spot she's more willing to run away from it than to take her side of the responsibility to fix it. I'm saying that if she's a keeper she won't allow it despite having the...

Whether guys are available or not is really irrelevant, it ignores the cause, a weak relationship to begin with. If a woman comes to the point she'd cheat like that, then I'd argue the relationship is fvcked either way regardless of whether she actually has that option easily available or not...

It's not that simple. I'd judge the nature of those friendships to determine whether it really is mutually platonic or there's obviously tensions present. Not that hard to spot unless you're emotionally and socially incompetent.

Yes, if you can be absolutely sure there's no precvm and that there's no viable sperm in it. You can't be sure of that so you're not completely safe doing that. It's of course less risk than cvmming inside her every time, but you're definitely gambling here.

He makes a good general point there, you're fighting your head switching out the gear all the time. Transferred to women it means trying to strategize all the time, but the better way is to just go for it. As he also says, he still gets knocked down, but he's not going to quit, he'll ride again...

He can't when it counts, in other words when he's actually attracted to the woman he wants to approach. I'm guessing the 1000 approaches were women he weren't attracted to.

Yes

Most of them, yeah, but some probably are just biased as well. It's easy to abuse statistics to push an agenda by interpreting the numbers in incorrect ways, I'm sure that's done deliberately rather than through sheer ignorance at least in some articles.

I think one problem with cancer studies and reporting on it to the general public is the use of percentages. Most people are too stupid or lazy to understand what a 15% increase in cancer risk means. In 2020 the global average for getting colorectal cancer was 19.5/100 000 or 0.0195%. Now this...

Online dating getting ever more predatory, water is also wet.

Sounds like narcissism. Not saying you're a full blown narcissist, but all of your described behaviors together puts you somewhere on that spectrum. Typical causes are childhood trauma and/or not getting the attention and validation a kid needs in your upbringing, such as very passive parents...

I know these members well enough that they don't mind disagreement, but do mind disrespect. You can fail to understand the problem here, but it's not going to help you.

You're being unnecessarily insulting. I agree with the others that this behavior isn't wanted on this forum. You're just using many words to call him old, stupid and possibly autistic. I'll let you go this time, but be aware that insults are against forum rules. You can disagree to something...

@soulforge I don't think he lives in Disneyland. The type of dynamic AmsterdamAssassin describes and the sort of things he's into isn't too uncommon, but because people judge and it's not worth the hassle, it's most often kept very privately. @AmsterdamAssassin you can't blame a normal dude for...

I cannot for the life of me understand the thought process of going after the man your wife/gf cheated with (assuming it's consentual). It's the woman who lied and betrayed, which to me is a far more serious offense. Had my wife cheated I would put all of the blame on her and hold her...

Punishment should not be necessary, if it is then the relationship is dysfunctional and I'm out. I will communicate what I have a problem with, they either care about me enough to do something about it or they don't. If they don't then I'm simply just out.