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  1. bmp2cpm

    Dealing with a lesbian couple

    I agree with everyone here. Some additional thoughts. 1) Is the dating pool that bad!that an option is a lesbian couple that wants to use you??? You think straight women can take advantage of a man, this is 10,000 times worse. A straight woman uses a man for many things. This couple only -...
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    Independent Women

    You may deny it, but "sex appeal" is the following: 1) genes 2) the particular set of the resources you are looking from a man at that particular point in your life 3) compatible communication skills, based mostly from childhood and 4) the man's preceived sexual value, based in part on...
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    Independent Women

    When I was younger, I use to think independent women were great. But now, I'm wiser. Here's how chemistry between the sexes works. Women crave resources and men crave sex. Women choose a partner who has the set of resources they desire in exchange for sex. Men exchange their resources for sex...
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    Can winning the lottery make an old coot attractive as a husband to a young bride?

    We all get into relationships that are familiar to us. Be conscious of this fact and you can use it to your advantage. Otherwise, you are kind of a slave to it. In this case, I suspect the fact that there were similar facial characteristics is part of what brought the two together, not so much...
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    article: Happily Never After: The Myth of Marriage

    This article was written by a woman. Just saying.
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    Something I've been noticing about scantily dressed women

    More than likely, these women already have someone in mind the outfit is meant for that they already saw or will see later in the day. Keep reading here and you may be that guy. Also, be less obvious when checking out the ladies.
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    Shouldn't our goal be getting women to pick us up?

    What's wrong with extrovert girls? Opposites attract. Extreme opposites attract extremely. I find the introvert girls boring. But I'm a big introvert. My girlfriend is an extrovert AA flight attendant and none of the male passengers seem to mind her being extrovert. She gets a lot of phone...
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    Shouldn't our goal be getting women to pick us up?

    I'll respond to the OP. Regarding setting the stage....the Tau of Steve speaks of this, in particular, "We pursue that which retreats from us." When I look at every woman that hinted to me that I should ask them out, I just didn't care about them and I wasn't that interested in them. Now...
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    He asked her to marry him, but she cheated. Should I tell him?

    Page 2 of this thread seems to have gotten a little of topic. But...I'll go with it. Women...they like the resources. Unfortunately....too many guys view resources as being successful or having money and then when women seemingly go for loser guys, men downplay being successful. But what many...
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    What Happened Guys???

    OK, I entered the work force in the mid-nineties, have focused on career, and been fairly busy since then. I got into a bad marriage, tried way too long to make it work, became a regular reader here 7 years ago. Thanks to this site, I found a great girl who got me out of my bad marriage and I...
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    Some people never figure it out

    1) Unless your "special purpose" has been removed in some way from your groin area than you are not "broken". 2) Online dating sucks. It's supplemental only. But generally it's a big time waster. Just don't. It's a way to inflate the female ego. Lower quality women are online. Quality women get...
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    Dumped by girlfriend with cancer

    My initial impression after reading this is that while you may turned a little bit AFC in the relationship, her cancer changed the type of resources she needed. To rephrase, her resource needs did a complete 360 once she realized she had cancer and the disease was becoming more of a progressing...
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    Tenacity Gets Threatened By A Thug - (Listen) LOL!

    To answer the question, I don't think you have enough legally to act upon at this point. Also, this is not the type of guy who is too concerned with the law or legal matters. You do have to ask yourself the question....if this guy is the best that girl could do for the father of her child...
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    Provoking instincts in women - why do women wear heels?

    As I leg man, I always thought that high heels were very suggestive sexually. I mean if you think about it, high heels put her legs in a very similar sexual position that you might have with the her ankles resting on your shoulders during the act. I always thought high heels were a way of a...
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    Disrespect or am I overreacting?

    Des is on to something, but......it's not about the girl being attracted to the guy. It's about the relationship is not working from the girl's perspective and she is now actively looking for a new guy. A woman in love with a man ignores other men, even attractive ones. This woman's interest...
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    They are into me cause of personality and not looks! That hurts!

    Women are hardwired to fall in love with a man because of his resources and resource potential. Looks are basically genetic resource for the few times in her life she is procreating. Personality is a resource of a sort as well. But really, looks and personality are not a big deal. A woman...
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    Too soon but have fun with it anyway?

    OK, so we had our date today. It started out alright. We held hands a lot. Kissed a few times. I did a lot of touching her back and shoulders. She does these push pull things with me. Like she tells me how she doesn't stay over night ever with a guy, except this one guy when it "felt right"...
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    Too soon but have fun with it anyway?

    All, good points. I think unless things are spectacular Saturday, there's no point in even considering FL. Thursday I didn't send her a single text the entire day. I sent her a text this morning and she responded immediately wanting to know if I was busy with work late last night. So, not...
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    Too soon but have fun with it anyway?

    Good advice grayclif and BeExcellent, So...even on the first date she does this bizarre routine where she tells me she should date this type of man or this type of person. Seems very random. First date, I thought she was trying to qualify me and I just kind of ignored it. Second date she did it...
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    Too soon but have fun with it anyway?

    I suppose you are right, but she's really cute and I think if I go into this with no expectations or anything long term, I'll be OK.
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