"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Florida is finished! Read if you considering moving to FL.

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I've spend my late teens and twenties in Florida and it was once a wonderful place. Affordable. Clean. Safe. It was a perfect paradise.

Nowadays we have King Tides. It's high tidal water which floods the streets. You see, since 2000s, sea level rose by 6 inches. Sea level is predicted to rise another4 to 8 inches in the next 10 years. In addition, gulf stream has slowed down, which naturally removes less water, and causes more water to hit Florida, sea level is naturally higher because of gulf stream.

Florida is going under water. Streets are flooding. https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=florida+king+tide

No. From my late teens and twenties in Florida I do not recall we had something called "King Tides". If there was king tides, the water was just higher in the bay and canals. Streets were not flooded.

Another thing is tiny hats. Florida is tiny hat world, it's similar to New York. Police protect tiny hats. There used to be enforcement of speed and traffic back in the day, as I remember, and I remember it well, I had more than 10 points on my license. Now, all police are doing is protecting tiny hat communities. There is no enforcement on the streets.

This leads us to the next part. Because tiny hats run everything, price of living is expensive. Property is unobtanium. Taxes are through the roof and then some. People are being priced the hell out of their properties. There is a reason for that. The new thing is to buy properties, cheap, and the land and build condos, so people can rent. Presently you can rent yourself a unit, prices is around $2500.

Homelessness exits. People are living on the streets and out of their cars. It is not as pronounced as in California. It's low key. If you get around during the day you won't even see much homeless. Only night brings you the images of homeless, prostitution and drug use.

Cleanliness also comes to mind. I remember from you youth Florida was much cleaner. Streets were literally cleaner. Roads were much better, now it's potholes all over.

Then, there is also now too much people in Florida. Literally, overcrowding.

So if you are considering moving to Florida. Reconsider. It is not a good place to move to.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So if you are considering moving to Florida. Reconsider. It is not a good place to move to.
I suppose Florida sucks if you're an average person with an average salary.

But I'll bet the dudes at the top of the food chain clean up in Florida.

The tougher the competition, the sweeter the prize.
 

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Florida is like 3 or 4 states, depending on where you live. It goes from Lower Alabama, to touristville, to Latin America. I lived in Tampa, which had all three, depending on the neighborhood.
 

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West coast is long dead. Think of west coast as New Orleans. It's like that now. Over populated. Traffic jammed. Criminal. Run down roads and infrastructure. Ghetto.

Similar story with Orlando.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm in Florida crowded yes but take any day over nebraska Jersey or North Dakota as well California .
 
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