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How would you ? Just wondering? Is her illness all to blame?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How would you respond to this? Regarding Lindsey Clancy
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How would you ? Just wondering? Is her illness all to blame?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Ignore it, treat it with the contempt it deserves.
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‘ Lol geez, if you’re dating anyone who happens to support Lindsey Clancy, you and me have issues, I can tell you that much’- this was my original statement.
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I wouldn't. But I actually wouldn't have bothered to get into this debate in the first place.
These types of things are for people with too much time on their hands...
These types of things are for people with too much time on their hands...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"Oh, I recognize Lindsay Clancy's humanity... Like so many additional individuals in our species, girl can't be relied upon to behave honorably, once the cameras are shut off. Nor is she especially eager to take her share of responsibility when her misdeeds are uncovered
Her thinking and behavior is typical/what we can accurately anticipate, in 8 out of every 10 people we encounter. I'm just no longer satisfied with that which is typical, banal, and stale"