"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The options I have for a new career, move forward - which one should I take from the options

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I have a few options up my belt, I am working full time, have savings, have a monthly salary, so I can study, do all of these on the side, I am in my mid 30s.

I've got a full time job, however there is no progression, no pay progression, hence I really do need to move on.

Work is work, so I'm not bothered which avenue I go in.

The options are:

-There are some Java, C#, Python, .net, JavaScript jobs without a degree required, a portfolio and skills will suffice or network my way in for a job

-Try to do freelance web development and establish contracts, establish myself

-Develop many complex android, iOS apps and try to get into a contract mobile app developer job, contracting, or network my way into a contract

-Since I don't have a degree, I can get into a masters on Computer Science course performance based admission and upon completion I've counted on the job sites there are loads of graduate programmer, software developer, software engineer, AI, some cloud computing, data science, data engineer jobs available for graduates

-Do a plumbing course, plumbers are well paid here in the UK and there is a possibility for self employment, contracts

-Do an electrician course, again, the pay is good and scope for contracts, self employment

-Or do a masters degree in a different subject, perhaps some subjects allow a performance based admission

-Use my customer service experience to try to move into an office job, I'm thinking of logistics work etc or find an agency that provides office work. Work my way up
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've been thinking a lot, I may take a plumbing course and then become a sub contractor, then a contractor.

Secure, stable option. The money is good.

I also may still study a masters degree as a hobby.
 
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