"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My Views on the status of Veterans in America.

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When you've got a ton of homeless Veterans in places like San Francisco, New York, Chicago and Washington DC area etc, you've got a problem. If you're gonna be handing out a ton of benefits to illegals and those who cross the border by asylum or something, might as well pay it forward to The Veterans who served this nation as well. 22 Veterans a day on average kills themselves by suicide. 22 is way too much man. We should all make some sort of change, better rehabilitation programs, better health care and holistic medicine etc. America should be a place where Veterans are more embraced than the LGBTQ community, but they are not, queers are more idolized because they made a whole month of June dedicated to them. Mental health should be given these a top priority instead we load them all up on pills instead of teaching them meditation, spiritual esoteric techniques and more herbal natural medicines to conquer their demons.

If I were out of the Military, I'd be telling that newly fresh Veteran to get that disability check and aim for that 100% benefits with payment pension because you've earned it. Don't settle for anything less . I understand we've got a few Veterans here on this board and I just want to say Thank you for your service. You have a unique set of skills that separates you from the civilian population and I'd ask chat gpt or meta to make you a damn good job resume if you're looking for a job lol. Stay humble, know that there's plenty of dudes whose got that University of Hard Knox degree, Veteran or not, and keep a fellowship of Men you can bond with occasionally to vent and let out some steam like the dudes on this board.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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@Travel memoir21 "When you've got a ton of homeless Veterans in places like San Francisco, New York, Chicago and Washington DC area etc, you've got a problem"

Yeah, as Milt Friedman and many others have pointed out:

-Pay vets a lump sum once their service is complete

-Abolish ALL forms of state aid(to locals and immigrants alike), except for the less than 0.0000001% who physically cannot get out of bed, feed themselves, or bathe without outside assistance. We forget today just how rare and tough it was to get free cash from Uncle Sam, prior to LBJ getting the brain wave: "We can abolish poverty via war"

Like dating and mating, the "What do we do about all this?" is relatively simple. Surmounting the obstacles("Vets might blow their cash off on hookers and coke, if we simply give them a lump sum", "Impoverished people might experience discomfort if we get a smidge more parsimonious + Vox's editors may accused us of being mean")in our way is where difficulties arise
 
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@Travel memoir21 "When you've got a ton of homeless Veterans in places like San Francisco, New York, Chicago and Washington DC area etc, you've got a problem"

Yeah, as Milt Friedman and many others have pointed out:

-Pay vets a lump sum once their service is complete

-Abolish ALL forms of state aid(to locals and immigrants alike), except for the less than 0.0000001% who physically cannot get out of bed, feed themselves, or bathe without outside assistance. We forget today just how rare and tough it was to get free cash from Uncle Sam, prior to LBJ getting the brain wave: "We can abolish poverty via war"

Like dating and mating, the "What do we do about all this?" is relatively simple. Surmounting the obstacles("Vets might blow their cash off on hookers and coke, if we simply give them a lump sum", "Impoverished people might experience discomfort if we get a smidge more parsimonious + Vox's editors may accused us of being mean")in our way is where difficulties arise
Lol Hookers and coke? I'll take a rain check and head on out to a meditation retreat instead . : )
 

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not that easy have you ever tried to join slit harder now than 09 when I tried .
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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