Cheeky_James
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MatureDJ
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The little guy is basically JesterMaxxing.
Cheeky_James
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the mental gymnastics are quite hilarious when pointed out. Gotta admitThe little guy is basically JesterMaxxing.
jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
It is!
But dude, if you're not short like me (or at least, I think you're not, is that right?).
So you may not understand what I'm telling you.
There have been beautiful women who are still attracted to me, but they've chosen taller men because "they look better in photos." You know? That family picture they take at ceremonies.
But I can assure you, they have less sexual attraction to their HB.
See. If there was a "mass movement" whereby short guys become "the ideal male partner", and it was accepted by society, then women would make the leap.
Women have always done what other women did, but right now, if a woman is attracted to a short guy, she first asks herself, "Is it socially acceptable?" "Will I be teased for this by my friends and other people?", "will my father and family accept that?".
And she doesn't feel good about it.
But look... look at it positively, buddy.
If you're an attractive short guy, and a confident woman likes you, then she'll ask herself those questions, but she'll also have answers, because she can think internally, and unlike other women, she'll have a different depth.
So, yes, we short guys have more difficulty dating, but once you invite a woman over and she's with you, then you have a qualitatively higher-quality woman than the others.
Short men actually filter out all the garbage
And always remember: it's the woman who chooses the man.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.