"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women are still playing games I see. ;-)
Oh yeah...and some of them don't even make sense...like the woman who thought I might secretly be gay, even though I offered to come over the night we matched, since the conversation was moving in an explicit direction.

I always wondered how the online dating advice would effect your chances with women.
Yeah...I'm probably going to stop doing that, actually. I've been at it for a little more than a year, and I haven't had a client outside of the forum. I've had guys want to fight me, women decide not to see me, and probably some stuff behind the scenes that I'm not aware of. I'm not a fan of the space, with how many guys fake their results, fake their clips, fake their pictures...all to get somebody to buy into the fantasy that this could be them in a few months.

I'm happy to continue helping guys who listen, but attaching my name and face to it outside of this forum has not been productive, and I think I have to be realistic, given my results thus far.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That 'seems to have unmatched' happened a LOT, or they just went cold. Post 2020 I never met anyone face to face off of an APP. If I'd have done cold approaches night and day game with as many attempts as swipes on those time vampires, I'd probably be sick of fvcking. lol
 
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Oh yeah...and some of them don't even make sense...like the woman who thought I might secretly be gay, even though I offered to come over the night we matched, since the conversation was moving in an explicit direction.
Well, that was a sh1t test obvs?

Hey did you delete your Insta & Tiktok already? I cant access your stuff...
 

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Well, that was a sh1t test obvs?
I'd have agreed if she only did it once...but then it became an excuse for why she was becoming less responsive.

Hey did you delete your Insta & Tiktok already? I cant access your stuff...
Everything's been deactivated or hidden, though not deleted. Like I said earlier, I was getting tired of having it affect my personal life when it was barely getting me paid.
 

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I'd have agreed if she only did it once...but then it became an excuse for why she was becoming less responsive.



Everything's been deactivated or hidden, though not deleted. Like I said earlier, I was getting tired of having it affect my personal life when it was barely getting me paid.
yes . I would have keep all of that well hidden from any ch1ck tbh. It’s not hard for them to make the leap to googling your intials and finding LRs on SoSuave….

I guess you will have to wait now for google to drop the results out of a search for your name as it’s still showing me thumbnails of your Insta videos etc

and Dating Coach is a side hustle or hobby job at best afaics.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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