"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What are the sex toys every man should have?

Pumax

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Sex toys aren't often talked about.

Of course, a man should master his fingers, his tongue, his p3nis, and all the tools nature has provided.

But have you ever wondered if you actually have a set of s3x toys you use to have fun with women?

Personally, a good vibrator, both external and internal, handcuffs, ropes, and a black eye mask.

What about you?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Duke

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No girl wants to have a sex toy that was used on some other girl to be used on her. Some aren't even comfortable with the same mattress your ex was on.

If you want to use sex toys with her, then its best to hit up the store with her. Its actually a fun date night activity if you are cool and comfortable about it.

I wouldn't recommend sex toys with girls I've dated for less than 6months unless she is a total freak. Only use to spice things up. You don't want this to be too much too soon.
 

Barrister

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Every once in awhile they are good to spice things up in an LTR. And will agree with Duke that a visit to a sex toy store can be fun with a woman mostly due to the anticipation it builds for getting home with her. However, for the most part I find them to be a distraction. I typically enjoy using my own God-given talents more than I do using a toy on a woman. I especially despise things like c*ck rings that just feel strange and get in the way.
 

MatureDJ

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The only sex toy a man needs is a jackhammer pen!s. :rolleyes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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