"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What are the sex toys every man should have?

Pumax

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Sex toys aren't often talked about.

Of course, a man should master his fingers, his tongue, his p3nis, and all the tools nature has provided.

But have you ever wondered if you actually have a set of s3x toys you use to have fun with women?

Personally, a good vibrator, both external and internal, handcuffs, ropes, and a black eye mask.

What about you?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Duke

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No girl wants to have a sex toy that was used on some other girl to be used on her. Some aren't even comfortable with the same mattress your ex was on.

If you want to use sex toys with her, then its best to hit up the store with her. Its actually a fun date night activity if you are cool and comfortable about it.

I wouldn't recommend sex toys with girls I've dated for less than 6months unless she is a total freak. Only use to spice things up. You don't want this to be too much too soon.
 

Barrister

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Every once in awhile they are good to spice things up in an LTR. And will agree with Duke that a visit to a sex toy store can be fun with a woman mostly due to the anticipation it builds for getting home with her. However, for the most part I find them to be a distraction. I typically enjoy using my own God-given talents more than I do using a toy on a woman. I especially despise things like c*ck rings that just feel strange and get in the way.
 

MatureDJ

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The only sex toy a man needs is a jackhammer pen!s. :rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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